u/Lopsided-Rip2799

hi! 22f here trying to find different ways to meet people around here. i’ve lived here for like 10 years and feel like i can’t find anyone new which might be the case. but starting to feel like i’ll never meet anyone ever and it’s just boring. i’m involved in hobbies that have community and such and i still don’t really find anyone im interested in. it could be me, but i don’t want to put my self esteem into this. i’m fairly confident in myself and love myself and my looks and my personality. just curious if anyone had any ideas.

hi! i’m a 22 year old woman and my girlfriends and i are looking for some fun places to drink and dance! we’ve found some bars to drink at but nowhere to really dance and shake some ass. any recommendations?

do guys find it weird or odd when a woman tells her best friend everything? it’s not that i’m trying to get her to be against you, but i just need to talk sometimes ya know?

haven’t posted much, but am a long time lurker. i’ve been thinking about my love life recently and it makes me sad. (i know this is a very privileged white bisexual woman take. i just need to vent.)

i’m 22, turning 23 this year. to preface, i am on the thicker side which already doesn’t get me noticed/approached/dated much. i am fairly outgoing, involved in many different community spaces/activities, and love making friends. i workout, take care of myself and love to just explore the world and live life. i love myself and who i am and am not afraid to be myself. but i tend to be the woman that men will fuck in private but never date in public.

i’ve never been in a long term relationship. i’ve never told anyone i’ve loved them. i feel like im great at the physical stuff but anytime i try to make a real connection it just seems to fizzle out because they’re not interested. i know im young and everything but being told “it’ll come when it’s ready” is really fucking tiring. i’ve deleted and downloaded dating apps a million times, been to bars, libraries, gyms, parks, etc and don’t ever seem to meet anyone mutually interested in me. i’m also fairly involved in local community theatres and the people tend to be married, gay, or out of my age range. (i don’t date people under 20 because that feels weird and everyone else is 15+ years older.)

is there any advice someone can give me? i’m tired of being the perpetually single one. i don’t feel like im doing anything wrong but the dating pool around me just feels like shit. i live in a city that has a college inside it, but i don’t like the college age atmosphere. the older i get the more i feel like i miss opportunities. i do truly enjoy being by myself, i just would like a companion sometimes. we all get lonely. anyways. thanks for listening to my vent <3