Mar (They/Them)

Im nb and my current name never really bothered me but I haven’t felt connected to it, just trying out some names for now. Does Mar sound like a both masculine or feminine name? Not sure if i even will commit to this name just wanna see how it feels :3

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 2 days ago

Mar (They/Them)

Im nb and my current name never really bothered me but I haven’t felt connected to it, just trying out some names for now. Does Mar sound like a both masculine or feminine name? Not sure if i even will commit to this name just wanna see how it feels :3

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 4 days ago

How does one go about changing their name?

As the title says, i’ve been debating on changing my name. My name currently isn’t common at all and is more masculine but i don’t mind it at all. But recently it just doesn’t feel like me? It’s a bit difficult to explain but whenever i hear someone say my name, I recognize it as belonging to me, but I can’t say I connect with it? It’s strange but it’s a bit similar to the feeling I felt when I first started to question if I was enby. If anyone who’s changed their name due to their discovery of being nb i’d love to hear how you realized it and how you experimented with names!

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 6 days ago

Worried my body won’t fit fem clothes

As the title says, i’m worried my body won’t fit feminine clothing. I’m Amab and I dress in a more masculine way. I have baggy T-shirts and baggy jeans with either boots or sneakers. The only “fem” things I do is wear eyeliner, long earrings, and have longer dyed hair. I wanna dress a bit more fem from time to time like maybe a skirt or cut my shirts the way some girls do where it hangs off the shoulder and shows the collarbone. I really want to experiment with clothing, I’ve been wanting to for a while but the biggest thing is I just feel like I don’t have the build for it. I’m a bulky looking person and i’m chubby. I’d say i’d have like a wrestlers build? I have a wide chest and broad shoulders so I don’t think I’d look right in a cut T-shirt or in any other fem clothings. I always told myself I just have to lose some weight and then I could wear some more feminine clothing but I just continue to look the same. I’ve finally started taking the gym and weight loss seriously but I don’t want to wait to experiment with clothes. I want to do it now, I’ve been wanting to for maybe half a year but I can’t muster up the courage. Any advice? Should I just wait until I feel like my build would look right in fem
clothing?

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 11 days ago

How can i get over my fear of wearing more fem clothing?

I’m amab but i still kinda like having some feminine elements, i paint my nails, use eyeliner, have dyed long hair, and i kind of want to start trying to experiment with more feminine clothing but I’m terrified. People haven’t really said much about the things i do currently, i kinda just get away with it because i look emo and it just fits that kind of style. It has been called out but I’m really great with people so nothing really comes of it. There have been a couple times where i get a weird stare and then the person doesnt interact with me anymore or they clearly think weirdly of me after and while I don’t feel too bad about it it still induces anxiety in me. Is there anything that has helped you relieve the fear or maybe even pieces of clothing that look a little fem but still get away with being a masc piece of clothing? Thank you :3

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 24 days ago

How to look more androgynous?

Basically what the title says, is there any tips to looking more androgynous? I’m amab. I already have longish hair like a wolf cut style and i usually wear nail polish and eyeliner but that’s really about it. Any other tips would be helpful thank you :3

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u/LoverOfAGhost — 27 days ago