WIBTA if I reported my manipulative ex for Immigration fraud after 2 years?
Around 3 years ago, I met a guy. I’m a citizen here, and he was an international student. We fell in love fast and moved into a shared house together after just one month. Honestly, I was already looking to move out of my parents' place, so it seemed convenient. Because I had a decent job and lived frugally (taking the bus, saving $12k a year), the financial burden fell on me. I paid for all the groceries and often covered his rent. Early on, a girl named "Cindy" kept texting him. He claimed he owed her money that he’d sent home to his family, so I lent him $500 to pay her back. Looking back, Cindy was likely an ex he had already milked for cash. She got smart at $500; I wasn't so lucky. Since he couldn't find a job, he suggested getting a car to do Uber. I was dumb, deeply in love, and co-signed the loan. Things were okay for 8 months, but he kept taking $200 here and there to "send home." Then, he needed $8k for his college tuition to keep his visa status. I paid it directly from my bank to the college, so I have undeniable proof. In total, he drained over $10k of my savings. Once he felt secure, he heavily pressured me to marry him for immigration stability. My parents saw right through his manipulation, flatly said no, and began sending me on casual dates with guys they approved of. To keep the peace at home, I went on a few strict first dates—never a second, and nothing happened. But he used this as his perfect exit strategy. He suddenly introduced a new friend, "Shiela," claiming she was just an old school friend. One December evening, he blindsided me, packed his bags, and left to live with her, blaming my first dates. When I later contacted Shiela, she revealed they weren't school friends at all. He had lied to her, claiming I was mentally and emotionally abusive so she would take him in. When I brought up my money, she said I am never getting that back.
Here is the kicker: he ended up marrying Shiela.
It has been 2 years since then. He blocked me everywhere. I went through hell, but I prayed, fought, and successfully got my name off his car loan. However, I never saw a single penny of my $10k. Even after contacting his father.
Today, I’ve completely moved on. I am happily married to an incredibly loving, supportive spouse. But when I read Reddit stories about people getting justice against scammers, a knot forms in my stomach. I let him off so easily. He used me, drained my savings, lied to everyone, and walked away scot-free to get his residency by trapping someone else. I still have all the evidence: the bank transfers to his college, the loan paperwork, and the timeline. I am highly tempted to report him to Immigration agency for marriage/immigration fraud, as his entire pattern is exploiting women for status. Also has worked illegally while a student. WIBTA if I reported him to IRCC after two years, or should I just let the past stay in the past and focus on my happy marriage?