Serial dater friend wanting to date my girlfriends
I am looking for some advice regarding a difficult situation with my husband’s best friend and our roommate. He has been struggling with dating due to nervousness and social anxiety for as long as I’ve known him. He won’t go to therapy or talk to a professional about his not so successful dating life.
As we all know, making new friends as an adult can be difficult, and I myself have been trying to meet like-minded women to build new friendships. However, I’ve encountered a recurring issue. Whenever I am out with a single woman or invite my single friends over, our roommate adds them on social media and pursues dates with them. Sometimes these dates are behind my back. This has made it very challenging for me to maintain and grow my own friendships. Because he often tries to date my single friends whenever I introduce them, I have already lost four or five friendships after the relationships failed within a few dates.
Am I wrong for wanting to set a boundary and ask him not to date my friends? I would appreciate your perspective on how to handle this.