Cheating is Romantic??
Im a cinephile, I love movies and its like an escape for me from day to day life. Even though romance genre is not my one of the top priorities but Ive watched some famous romantic movies, like titanic, notebook, recently mai vaapis aunga of imtiaz ali. And ive noticed a thing that in all of these movies atleast one character cheat on thier partner, to get with thier loved one, even if its concious or subconcious. We love to see those characters together, but just imagine the 3rd character and thier perspective. Even in imtiaz ali film, I know that guy had dementia and he was married out of his will. But god...its my biggest nightmare to marry a man and on his deathbed, its his teenage love who he remembers. Its just soul crushing, like think from the wife's perspective, she also had to marry a man out of her will, she gave him children, stayed with him, and he remembered his teenage love?? I know its not his fault, its his deeply suppressed longing and love for her, but I just cant imagine myself in that situation. Also if you see modern movies like wuthering nights, that women also cheats on her husband. Why one person has to suffer so the iconic couple can reunite?? And it terrifies me, when men say "they cant forget thier first love ever"..It TERRIFIES me. I just wish I never get married to a man like that.