Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, we have been together since grade 9 in our freshman year and a few months ago when she was gone on vacation with her family I got with another girl. Things went a little too far and now I have uct off contact with that girl and my girlfriend is coming back in 2 days, she has no clue about anything that happened and I feel insanely guilty
I know people can make mistakes. I know people can change. But when someone you deeply love betrays your trust, over and over again, something inside you changes too. Even if they say they’re sorry, even if they promise it will never happen again, the memories stay. The doubts stay. You start questioning everything—their words, their actions, even the moments when they’re simply not around.
I’m trying to understand whether trust can really be rebuilt after cheating, or whether staying only means living with the fear that it will happen again.
For those who have experienced this: Did your partner genuinely change after cheating? Or did they eventually do it again?
I’m not looking for judgment. I just want honest experiences and perspectives because sometimes hearing from strangers who have gone through the same pain helps you see things more clearly. ❤️
I honestly can’t bear the pain anymore. I just need to unload the heaviness in my heart right now because it feels like it’s becoming too much to carry alone.
I keep going back and forth in my mind, trying to make sense of everything, trying to find some kind of peace or answer that will stop this ache.
Okay I posted on here last week and deleted the post because you guys ate me up. Which all very true statements. Here is a breakdown of the situation.
I (34F) cheated twice with the same person in August and never said anything. The person was someone I was also seeing since May and I should have ended it immediately. I regret it immensely and know that I deserve everything that is happening for having done that. Now I am going to breakdown instances in the so called perfect relationship we had, because we were looking at rings to get married just a few weeks back. So lets begin....
Met in June 2025
Started officially dating in July 2025
December 2025 - bf comes to me and confesses that he has had an outbreak and he tested positive for Herpes 2. He immediately apologizes for having given it to me and tells me how he used to live a very irresponsible life before us. A week later I have an outbreak and test positive as well. Now I'm thinking wow I love this man and I have no reason to think any infidelity has occurred. Plus were in love guys so we move forward.
January 2026- he finds a message I deleted on my phone from a guy I no longer talked to saying "so you wont talk to me anymore" or something along those lines. I had no contact with him so no need to keep his messages. Not good, he was upset and grilled me about it for a while.
At one point in the beginning of 2026 he requested I no longer have guy friends, a specific one who had never been more than a friend but I get it so I block the guy and stop all contact.
March 2026- I find that he has multiple Instas, some have profile pics that are more sensual than others. We have a fight and I'm looking through everything and of course, never find anything on there. He deletes the other accounts.
June 2026 - I find out he texted his ex to ask to meet her. She never responded, so nothing happened. I obviously forgave him but let him know how much it hurt my feelings and that I want him to delete the contact. (he never does)
July 2026- He looks through my phone and finds messages with two of my friends about me seeing the guy in August. These messages were from July 2025.
Life blew up obviously. He was extremely hurt and angry with me. Wanted me out of the house then to work things out. And I was begging him to forgive him, to do counseling at church or therapist. I mean I was down bad trying to find a way to make things work. He let me know what a POS I was and how could I cheat on HIM. All that jazz yk. I mean he wanted me to hurt and at the time I completely understood that what I did was the ultimate betrayal so I begged him, on my knees begged him. He said really mean and hateful things to me which were all well deserved. When he asked me why I did it I explained that it was so stupid of me, I didn't know what we would have or that I loved him at that point. Really there is no justification for cheating, I know that. I have always been cheated on with all my LTR and STR and I just thought well this time I will do it first because it ALWAYS happens anyways. That's a super dark thing to admit and again I cannot justify what I did. It was a horrible choice and it's on me to be a better person in the future for myself and any future partners.
THEN, the truth came out... we're in the midst of figuring out if staying together would even work for us and he's crying and he's like "I have to be honest with you. I also cheated when you were out of town back in August 2025 and when I found out you had cheated on me last week I fucked the receptionist at the gym" I laughed out loud.... because WTF do you mean you have treated me like trash the last week and a half, made me pack and unpack my shit, have all my clothes in bags AND YOU HAD DONE THE SAME THING THE ENTIRE TIME.
The first thing that came to my mind was I FUCKING KNEW IT, they all cheat and DAMN IT HE DID IT FIRST. Again terrible dark things to admit. So now were sitting here staring at each other knowing we both did wrong to each other. So what do we do.... I suggest start a clean slate, go to therapy and work on all our issues. I mean we live together, I've been parenting his son this entire year with him, we've met our families and we had a vision for a future together. He agrees, all happy and dandy then next day tells me I have to go and that he hates me. He cannot get past me doing that to him, he cannot get over me being with another man. Says its different for guys. Tells me I will not like who he is and all the making up I will have to do.
So I am moving out now and the relationship is over. My first step is therapy for myself and why I felt compelled to cheat when I knew what it felt like and to make sure I do not repeat it again. I am in between feeling deserving of all of that has happened and also hurt by how he reacted and sad that the relationship has ended. I am struggling to move forward while it feels like he already has his next partners lined up on his socials.
What's some advice on how to move forward and even how I should feel? All perspectives welcomed.
I met my bf about four months ago, and honestly, we fell in love almost immediately. The chemistry between us was intense, and our seggs life was incredible. I took the relationship very seriously and genuinely believed I was building something real with him. But looking back, our foundation was never as strong as I thought it was. There were a lot of things he did that made me question how seriously he actually took me. He once had seggs with me in front of one of his friends even though I repeatedly told him I was uncomfortable and didn’t want to. Another time, his friend was literally on the other side of the bed while we were having seggs. He also introduced me to his entire friend group even though I had made it very clear that I didn’t really like them and didn’t want to be involved with them. He created a friend group with them on Snapchat anyway. I also found girls on his Snapchat whom I didn’t know about (he lied to me about this cause he always said he doesn’t add girls on SC) There were lies too. Not necessarily one huge lie that destroyed everything, but enough little lies and questionable behavior that I became suspicious of him constantly.
And then there was the blocking.
He blocked me almost three times during our relationship. Every time, we’d eventually get back together, but he never really apologized or took responsibility for how much it hurt me.
The third time he blocked me, I was completely fed up. I was angry, hurt, and honestly wanted someone to talk to. I ended up venting to one of his friends. I’ll call him Sam. Sam listened to me and gave me advice. At some point, he introduced me to another friend of his, who I’ll call Fred. Fred knew my boyfriend and had hung out with him several times, although they weren’t particularly close. Fred was kind to me at first. He listened to me and gave me advice, and eventually our conversations became flirty. The truth is, I wasn’t emotionally interested in Fred. I was attracted to him physically, but I didn’t actually know him well enough to like him as a person. One day, Fred hosted a small gathering at his house. It was supposed to be me, Sam, and Sam’s girlfriend. I arrived early, before anyone else. When I first saw Fred, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. We drank that night, and eventually Fred and I had seggs.
I regretted it almost immediately.
I don’t do one night stands. I didn’t know this man well enough, and the whole thing felt completely out of character for me. The next day, I called Fred crying because I was overwhelmed with regret.
His response was basically, “If you had fun, that’s the good part.”
It made me feel even worse because I wasn’t looking at the situation that way at all.
About a week later, my boyfriend and I got back together. And I couldn’t keep the truth from him.
I told him everything. I didn’t leave out the fact that Fred was someone he knew. I didn’t try to make myself look better. I didn’t hide anything.
He appreciated that I was honest with him, but obviously, he’s extremely hurt. And now I’m drowning in shame. I know that I made a choice. I know that being angry, hurt, or frustrated with my boyfriend doesn’t magically make what I did okay. At the same time, I genuinely regret it. I didn’t continue seeing Fred. I wasn’t trying to replace my boyfriend. And the fact that I confessed everything as soon as we got back together makes me feel like, at least, I couldn’t live with keeping it from him.
But I still feel like a horrible person.
I don’t know whether I should be trying to repair this relationship or accept that I’ve damaged it beyond repair. And I don’t know how to separate **“I made a terrible decision”** from **“I am a terrible person.”**
So Reddit, what do you think?
Did I completely destroy any chance of having a healthy relationship with my boyfriend, or is this something two people can actually work through?
Sorry that it’s a long story!
My boyfriend is friends with one of the girls he cheated on me with again, and I don’t know if I’m overreacting
I’m going to try to explain this as objectively as possible because I genuinely want outside opinions.
I’m 18F, my boyfriend is 18M, and the girl involved is 18F. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We’re both still in high school, and for the most part, he has been someone I’ve considered my best friend as well as my boyfriend.
Earlier this summer, I found out that he had cheated on me.
The cheating started around June 26, and I found out about it on July 17. It involved three girls who I had previously considered friends. These weren’t random girls. They were people I knew and trusted, which made the whole thing hurt significantly more.
There were multiple things that happened during that period that I didn’t know about at the time. They were talking to him during important moments for us, including his birthday, our anniversary, Fourth of July, and my grandmother’s 80th birthday. At one point, he apparently FaceTimed one of the girls for around five hours and even hung up on me to play Roblox with her. (I know, childish.)
There was also a point where he had apparently told ChatGPT that he was thinking about breaking up with me because he was unhappy. At the same time, he was telling me that he loved me and wanted to stay with me.
When I found everything out, I was absolutely devastated. I felt humiliated, angry, confused, and honestly just really insecure about myself. I kept wondering what I had done wrong and why people I trusted had done this to me.
Despite everything, I decided to stay with him.
He told me he wanted to make things right, and I wanted to see whether we could actually rebuild the relationship instead of immediately throwing everything away. Since then, he has made efforts to regain my trust, and I do believe he has been trying. I’m not saying he has done nothing to rebuild things.
The problem is the girls.
Recently, my boyfriend and one of the girls became friends again.
That has been really difficult for me because she isn’t just some random girl from school. She was involved in the exact situation that caused me to lose a huge amount of trust in my boyfriend in the first place.
I have told myself that if he is going to be friends with her, I need transparency. I don’t want secret accounts, hidden conversations, disappearing messages, or some friendship that exists completely behind my back. He has a main Snapchat account that I have permission to access, so I’ve basically told myself that as long as things aren’t being hidden from me, I can at least try to accept it.
But emotionally, I’m struggling with it.
I don’t necessarily think he is currently cheating again. I don’t have proof of anything happening right now. That’s actually part of why I’m confused.
I just have this really strong gut feeling that something is wrong.
And I mean REALLY strong.
It’s not just me thinking, “I don’t like that they’re friends.” It’s this weird pit in my stomach that I can’t shake. The reason it scares me is because the last time I had a really strong gut feeling that something was wrong, I found out the next day that he had been cheating.
So now my brain is basically screaming, “We have seen this before.”
There are also school events where him and her could be around each other, which makes me more aware of the situation.
I don’t want to become controlling. I don’t want to tell my boyfriend that he’s never allowed to speak to another girl. I also don’t want to spend every day checking his phone and assuming that every interaction means something.
But at the same time, I don’t think I should have to pretend I’m completely comfortable with him rebuilding a friendship with someone who was involved in betraying me.
I feel like there are two competing thoughts in my head:
“He is trying to rebuild my trust, and I should judge him based on what he’s doing now.”
and
“She was involved in one of the worst things that has happened to our relationship, so why are they friends again?”
I genuinely don’t know where the reasonable boundary is here.
So Reddit, am I being unreasonable for feeling uncomfortable with this friendship?
And after someone cheats with a specific person, is it actually reasonable for their partner to expect that friendship to stay over, or is it possible to rebuild trust while that person remains in their life?
I want honest opinions about whether my discomfort is justified and what a reasonable boundary would look like.
UPDATE: A lot of people are asking why I’m still with him, so I want to add some context about our relationship
I’ve read a lot of the comments on my original post, and I think I left out some important context.
First, I want to be very clear that I am NOT saying I was a perfect girlfriend. I wasn’t.
I’ve made mistakes in our relationship too. There have been times where I’ve been overly emotional, jealous, insecure, argued with him, reacted badly to things, and handled situations in ways that I now know I could have handled much better. I have apologized for those things and I’ve genuinely tried to work on myself.
I’m not going to sit here and pretend that I did absolutely nothing wrong just because he cheated. I know I had things I needed to improve, and I have taken responsibility for them.
However, one thing that has become really difficult for me is that whenever we have a conversation about what happened with the cheating, he sometimes brings up things that I did in the relationship and the conversation turns into what I did wrong.
For example, instead of the conversation staying focused on something he did and how it affected me, it can become, “Well, you did ___,” or “You treated me badly when ___ happened.”
And I understand why he has feelings about those things. If I hurt him, he is allowed to be hurt. I don’t expect him to pretend that I was perfect.
But I struggle with the fact that those things sometimes feel like they’re being used to turn the conversation around.
I can say:
“What you did hurt me and damaged my trust.”
and the conversation can become:
“Well, you hurt me too.”
Then suddenly we’re talking about my mistakes instead of the original issue.
I’m not saying my mistakes don’t matter. I’m saying I don’t think two things have to cancel each other out.
I can take accountability for being a bad girlfriend in certain situations while he takes accountability for cheating.
If I treated him badly, he had the right to tell me, set boundaries, ask for changes, or even end the relationship.
I don’t think that makes cheating justified.
And I’ve also tried to make changes since everything happened. I’ve been trying to communicate better, work on my reactions, rebuild trust, and be a better partner. I stayed because I genuinely love him and because I believe people can make mistakes and change.
That’s also why the situation with the girl he cheated with is so complicated for me.
I’m not sitting here thinking, “He cheated, therefore he can never speak to another girl again.”
I’m trying to rebuild trust with him.
But now he is friends with someone who was involved in the situation that caused the original betrayal, and I’m expected to be completely comfortable with that while I’m still trying to heal.
That’s where I’m struggling.
I also want to clarify something from my original post: I don’t currently have proof that he is cheating again. I am not saying that he is.
I just have this incredibly strong gut feeling that something is wrong. The last time I had that feeling, I found out shortly afterward that he had been cheating, which is why this particular feeling scares me so much.
I’m trying not to let my anxiety make decisions for me, but I also don’t want to completely ignore my instincts.
I love him. That is why I stayed.
I’m not staying because I think cheating is okay. I’m not staying because I think I deserve it. And I’m not staying because I think I have to prove something.
I stayed because I believe our relationship is worth trying to repair.
But I’m realizing that rebuilding a relationship after cheating means BOTH people have to be able to acknowledge the ways they hurt each other without using one person’s mistakes to erase the other’s.
So I guess my question is less “Was I wrong for staying?” and more:
Can a relationship actually heal when both people acknowledge their mistakes, or am I making excuses for someone who has already shown me that he isn’t willing to take full responsibility?
I cheated on my gf because I was looking forward to end things. I agree i am in the wrong by cheating i should've told her but I loved her as much and didn't wish to continue at the same time, because I was jealous of her past didn't feel enough ,special and desired and I was immature to think tht I wasn't her first when she wanted to make me her last after i cheated i would be equal to her past then couldn't have the guilt so confessed to her yet she still stayed which made me realise howmuch she loves me and tht I was more than enough now I regret cheating and looking ways to end it. I wish I was more patient and handled things differently If I understood her more before I cheated tht this is wht she felt abt me i would've thrown all my insecurity behind and we'd be happy but since I cheated the relationship is like very unstable how can I reassure her
I got married to her [29F] thinking she is the best out there atleast thats what she made me believe. He pretended ro be best the besg and even Godly. Right now my life is in shambles i cant get hold of her i really dont know how we hot here and i want to be sure she's just this way but i reallh do think she's cheating rn i need closure... i need to move on.
**Need opinions because I feel like I’m losing my mind.**
I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We recently got back together after about a month apart.
I went to his house and found a pair of women’s panties sitting **right on top of his dresser next to the TV**. Not inside a drawer. Not under the bed. Literally out in the open in a spot that’s hard to miss.
Here’s why I’m struggling with his explanation:
I’ve been in his house alone countless times over the last two years.
I’ve gone through pretty much every drawer and every room before (yes, I know that’s not healthy, but I’m being honest).
I’ve never seen those panties before.
They looked relatively new to me.
His response was first, “Those are yours.” They are **100% not mine**—wrong size and not my style.
After that, his story became: “I don’t know whose they are. I don’t know how they got there. I have no idea.”
He has completely stuck to that story and won’t budge.
My question isn’t whether I should stay with him. I’m asking:
**If you found another woman’s panties sitting on top of your partner’s dresser in plain sight, and they claimed they had no idea how they got there, would you believe them?**
I’m genuinely looking for outside perspectives because I feel like I’m driving myself crazy trying to make sense of it.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I’m trying to figure out whether I’m giving him another chance because I genuinely believe in us, or because I’ve become used to accepting things I shouldn’t.
About 5 months into the relationship, he kissed another woman and told her she could touch him.
In another situation, he kissed me and slept with her the very next day.
I stayed and forgave him.
Since then, there have been other things that have made me question his respect for me. I found an old chat where a female friend was asking what he even saw in me and joking that I probably “smelled like cheese.” He didn’t shut it down. I also found messages where he referred to another married woman as his “girlfriend” and asked ChatGPT to treat his girlfriend well.
He still hasn’t told his parents about me. The timeline has gone from “two years” to “September” to “next year.” We’ve now started couples therapy, and my therapist told me to stop telling him what he needs to do and let him show me through his own actions.
I Q loved him, but I’m exhausted. I need actions, not promisesq.
If you were me, would you give this relationship another chance, or walk away?
Problem/Goal:
As promised, ito na yung full detailed story time of how everything went down. It got so much worse , kase I found out more.
The cheating actually started last May. My ex and this girl started talking non and nagkita rin sila. I found out back then, ai didn’t do anything yet, bigla na lang sya umamin out of nowhere. He claimed he "took care of it," talked to the girl, told her he had a girlfriend, and cut her off.
Guess what? little did I know, aware pala to si kabit sakin. She knew we were still together, but she went for it still.
Nung nalaman ko na niloloko nila ko parehas, it changed everything. From my first post, wala akong pake sa girl kasi sakin, dinamay lang sya nito ni ex. Pero knowing that these two are having a whole affair while he was still with me? I decided I was going after both of them.
Context:
I LET HIN DIG HIS OWN GRAVE. I played it cool. Kunyari we’re good lang ni ex. nag agree ako sa lahat ng sinasabi nya hahaha that mf thinks I will agree sa sick terms nya. Get this, yung "terms" nya is kami still, while keeping the “easy” kabit, kase pumapayag lang nga naman sya whatever sabihin ni ex hahaha. And me? oo lang ng oo, kunyari goods. He really thought he won.
So feel nya safe place na nga, sinasabi nya mga plans nya and all nasty things about kay kabit, and of course, sino may screenshot nito? ako rin hahaha. My ex also kept lying to her, telling her that he and I were already broken up or mag bbreak, kasi waiting for her turn na si kabit eh hahahaha (even though we were very much together, and alam din ni kabit).
Previous attempts:
Yung plan ko talaga initially was to separate them so I could focus on pinning him down alone, without involving si kabit. I reached out to her just to clear things up and gather proof for my proof na isasampal kay ex. During our chat, I explicitly told her that he and I were very much together, and she fully acknowledged it. I even forwarded her my screenshots of his actual plans and how he trash-talks her, just to warn her for awareness.
Pero nagulat talaga ko how low and brainless tong si kabit. Literally A DAY AFTER knowing the truth, she was right back up in my ex's ass anyway. Kahit may screenshots and photos, she still chose to believe that liar na wala sa kanya sinabing totoo simula una hahahaha. In the span of 2 days, 4x na ata sila nag break at nag balikan, pero naniwala pa rin siya kasi akala niya “genuine” si ex hahahaha kakahiya at nakakaaw, nag aabang pa si kabit ng “explanation” sa intentions nya raw hahahaha
It gets worse, zero self-respect and di pa girls girl. Palaban pa yan, she doesn't care and leave her out of it daw, tapos kausap pa ex ko while we’re together at the time, tapos sabi ko pa wag sabihin for my safety, dedma sha, focus sya kay ex hahaha
so eto na nalaman na ni ex I reached out and completely exposed his words to his mistress, he lost his absolute mind. He got so mad, accusing me of "ruining his reputation" (siniraan ko daw siya hahahaha) and twisting things. I LEFT THEM FIGHTING sa mga sarili nilang shit HAHAHAHAH
I didn't even waste my breath arguing. Sinend ko lang yung screenshots nila sa bawat isa. It was beautiful. Watching his lies collapse right in front of him made him cry, nag panic eh hahahaha
Moving forward:
Sobrang gulo ng mundo nila and I am so glad I am no longer a part of it.
To J (kabit): Good luck babe hahaha tapang tapangan saying u don’t care, pero waiting for my leftovers. All yours babe 🫶
Again, thank you so much to all the ate's and tita's here who gave me advice and had my back when I felt like I had no one.
I got into trouble I need to delete somethings from a mobile phone.
My ex and I were together for all of this year. Things ended a few weeks ago. I need outside perspective on whether this counts as cheating. For some context i had broken up with her last october bc she lied to me a couple times and i had a rlly bad feeling but she convinced me to get back together with her.
- (guy 1) She reached out to reconnect in December. Months later, I found mirror pics of her and a guy friend, kissing, in early December. She says they were to make his ex jealous.
- (guy 1) She stayed friends with him during our relationship. At one point she said she was done with him, but he later showed up at her house uninvited and made her uncomfortable.
- She was snapping several guys. I said it made me uncomfortable; she offered to stop, without me asking. A few months later, I noticed she was doing it again. This talk happened 2-3 times.
- (guy 2)She started volunteering at an elementary and in her group was a younger guy. I saw flirty texts and her asking him for a ride. She admitted she asked two guys for rides separately. She’s talked abt this other guy from volunteering before but she never mentioned that they talked regularly and she left out the fact that she asked him for a ride despite talking about how he has a car and a license. She said she would’ve asked me but I was at work so she did what was convenient
- (guy 1)One Friday, I saw she'd liked his half-naked Instagram post. She admitted they talked on the phone. A week later she told me he'd actually come over that day. She said she didn't tell me because she didn't know how I'd react. This was also after she said she was done talking to him because of our relationship and other issues unrelated to our relationship
- (guy 1)She shared a vulnerable thing I told her (fear of her leaving) with that same guy. she said i was “whining about how i would kill myself if she ever left me”
- When I raised concerns, she said I was insecure/controlling. She also said I 'micro cheated' because a female friend kissed my forehead once (I didn't initiate it, I told her about it, and I cut that friend off when she asked because i value the safety of my relationship over some other girl im just friends with)
-When she lied to me about something i would bring it up and she would feel ashamed for lying so she would walk away or go completely silent. But when i confronted her abt the snapchat and talking to other guys and hiding it from me she got rlly cruel and somewhat abusive.
Her argument: she never kissed or slept with anyone while we were together, so it wasn’t cheating
Was this cheating yes or no?
I don’t have social media. But he does.
I’ve had several of my friends send me screenshots of his social media accounts and who’s following. (I don’t ask for these screenshots. My friends are just concerned?)
It’s all OF or Instagram models, his exes, or his “situationships”. I’ve asked him to clean up his following list several times because it makes me uncomfortable and insecure. The first time, he said okay and he will. The second time, he said it’s too much work and he has to go through thousands of people.
But here recently my friends said all of his social media accounts are set to private now.
What should I do? I don’t know if he’s cheating. He’ll bring his phone just to go get water downstairs. His phone is always face down. He says it’s because of past problems in relationships where his ex girlfriends snooped through his phone. But I don’t even know his password. Or been around his phone long enough to do such a thing.
This is just my personal opinion. Its not meant to judge or upset anyone.
My wife and I have been married over 15 years. During our first year of marriage she cheated with a coworker and confessed about it afterwards. I was happy before I knew. I thought we both were. It took a long time, a lot of long talks, fights, self blame, and honestly some pretty unhealthy coping mechanisms to get through it but we did.
But looking back at it now, I wish she hadn’t confessed to me. In my opinion cheating is a selfish act someone does for themself. But so is confessing. You cause all this hurt, and pain, and confidence issues, and broken trust just to ease your own conscience. To absolve your own sins. To make yourself feel better about the guilt. And to me, that is you being selfish again.
Because yes I forgave her. Yes I stayed with her. And yes I am still very much in love with her and happy with her. But I still think about it from time to time. Not often, it no longer affects the way I view her. But I just think if she would have not confessed, if she would have just put in the work she did after confessing but without me knowing. How all the drama, and pain for both of us could have been avoided.
I've cheated on my bf. And im guilty and ashamed of everything that I've done. I want to speak to someone who has gone through this. I want to become a better person. I want to understand what is it that I can do to fix everything.
Preferably guys. Please dm
Problem/Goal:
I caught my boyfriend of 4 years cheating. I don’t want to fix the relationship, hear his excuses, or have a long discussion about it. Gusto ko na lang tapusin and make it clear that I know what he did.
I’ve already emotionally detached, so I want the confrontation and breakup to feel like my final “cherry on top” or something satisfying but still smart, safe, and not something I’ll regret later.
Context:
He doesn’t know that I know yet. I am currently gathering and saving evidence before confronting him because I don’t want him to deny it or twist the story. I want to break up with him really soon, but I’m deciding pano ko gagawin na very satisfying saken hahaha. I’m not looking to harm him or make a huge public scene; I just want him to realize that i knew all along, and basically make fun of him the last time kase I AM READY TO BLOCK THAT PERSON SA BUHAY KO.
Previous Attempts:
I haven’t confronted him yet. For now, I’m keeping the evidence and quietly planning the breakup before he finds out that I know. So any recommendations my dear ladies, make it super petty. AND I WILL UPDATE YOU GUYS NEXT WEEK ABOUT THE BREAK UP HAHAHAHHA
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I warned her years ago that changing your attitude towards sex or changing who you are towards the relationship in general would end in me cheating. I don’t want to break up, I love her, but she will not listen. I’ve had 3 affair partners in 5 years and was caught once. I didn’t beg her to stay, she just stayed on her own and refused to adapt.
I never thought I'd be the type of person to hire someone like plughcz. But when your world flips upside down and everyone around you believes a lie, you get desperate.
Desperation led me to him. Trust took over from there.
Within days, he pulled up deleted texts I'd been told didn't exist messages from six months ago that my wife had carefully erased. She had been gaslighting me for months, making me question my own sanity. Plughcz didn't just give me data; he gave me back my reality.
I still don't understand the technical side of what he does, and honestly, I don't need to. I just know he delivered when no one else could. Hire a hacker.
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