I've cheated on my bf. And im guilty and ashamed of everything that I've done. I want to speak to someone who has gone through this. I want to become a better person. I want to understand what is it that I can do to fix everything.
Preferably guys. Please dm
🏡 What I’m looking for:
📍 Location: Koramangala / Madiwala / Jayanagar (or nearby central areas)
💰 Budget: Up to ₹8,000/month
🏠 Type: 1BHK or PG (shared or private both okay)
🛋️ Preference: Furnished place
⚠️** Important**:
🚫 Preferably zero deposit or very minimal upfront payment
💬 I know it’s a bit tough to find something decent in this budget, but I’m hoping there might still be some good leads or hidden gems out there 😊
🙏 If you know any place or have any contacts, please DM me or drop a comment. I’ll check and move ahead quickly!
Guys I might join Meril soon. And marketing is a field I have no experience in.
What are the responsibilities? Will we have to send boring mails? Design brochures? Create ppts?
Also how many conferences could there be yearly? Will I have to visit hospitals? Will I get an opportunity to visit OT. I’m so clueless.
Guys help me out hereee
My bf gets really caught up with work. And so I wait to hear from him. I get so excited to just get a text from him. It makes me so happy. But when I do talk to him … it all dies down.
It then feels like a regular conversation.
Been together for 6 years now. Just started feeling this way. What’s wrong with me? Is it coz he’s unable to spend time with me? Or am I losing interest? I’m really paranoid
Edit: thank you so much guyssss, I’m gonna sit my ass down and have the talk with him. Y’all the best
So I’m currently in my job search phase and it’s been around 6 months now. I stay with my parents. We live in a huge family. I don’t have my own privacy let alone a room. I haven’t been able to regulate my emotions coz I get asked a lot abt my job status and peeps at home basically think I’m useless.
My grades were just slightly avg like 70s. Not anything impressive. And now I’m 22 since peeps think I’m useless they talk a lot abt marriage and it’s stressful coz I have a bf. We’ve been dating for 5 years now. And he’s an amazing guy always found peace in his presence.
I have a lot of dreams to achieve. But everytime I tell my parents that for instance: “I’ll def start a business” they say that I’m incapable of it. I feel super depressed this was just one incident.. but there were many and it has gotten worse with me being unemployed.
I also feel like at home. I’ve been so nice with everyone. I say yes and just agree to everything they say also I think a lot abt everyone’s situation before reacting even if they’ve hurt me.
But I’m done with this. I don’t want to do this anymore. I feel like I’ve lost my respect a lot. And that people have taken me for granted. They say anything.. left right centre and I’m just clueless of how I’m supposed to react. I feel like my reaction would be way too much if I did and even if I did I’d end up worrying abt their situations.
Now I wanna set boundaries and I wanna take stand for myself but I don’t know how. People just underestimate me.. yes I’m not the brightest among all but I do have dreams. And I’m quite ambitious. I have an older sibling and few cousins living w me. My older sis is respected. She has had severe fuck ups. She’s been wrong most of the time and I’ve been the most understanding yet I’m never taken into consideration. Just saying no, will flip the house up side down and if I create an issue or take stand for myself my sis interferes and starts acting like she’s tryna control me. Also my cousins living w me who are younger respect the older sis a lot and when it comes to me .. I’m nothing.. it’s like they can say anything to me even tho I’m the best to them ot have done so much for them.
I want to gain this respect. People should fear to talk to me. Coz I’m tired I really am. Please help me out.
Want to start e commerce or dropshipping don’t have a lot of money but def wanna give it a shot. Problem is that I dislike almost all the products on India mart or trade India.. I just find all of em super tacky not sure if people would actually invest in such products either.
I stay in Bengaluru and so even if I source from local market then I’ll have to handle literally everything. So what now? I def wanna do this but idk help me out guys
I’ve always wanted to start my own e-commerce business or get into dropshipping, but I’m honestly really confused right now.
It’s 2026, and earlier we had Roposo Cloud, but that’s gone now since April. I know dropshipping in India is easier because of COD, which is a big advantage. But at the same time, I’m struggling to find good products on platforms like IndiaMART or TradeIndia. Most of the products feel very basic or low quality, and I don’t see why someone would choose to buy those when they can get better options from Amazon or Flipkart.
That’s one thing I’m stuck on.
The second thing is I’m not even sure whether I should focus on dropshipping in India or try international dropshipping. I keep going back and forth on that.
Also, I don’t have a lot of capital right now — I have around 5K. Once I start working, I’ll be able to save and invest more, but at this point, I want to start smart. I don’t want to randomly pick products just to “try” and end up wasting time.
I do understand that with IndiaMART, one advantage is that suppliers can handle shipping, which makes things easier. But if I source products locally (like from Chickpet or similar markets), I’d have to manage packaging, shipping, everything on my own. That’s something I’m unsure about, especially since I’ll be working Monday to Saturday. I’m ready to put in the effort, but I also want to be realistic about what I can handle.
I just want to make sure I’m taking the right path. I don’t want to spend years putting in effort only to realize later that it wasn’t worth it.
If anyone has been through this or is currently figuring it out too, I’d genuinely love to connect and maybe figure things out together.
So basically, I’ve been on job search for a while now. And I got connected with someone on LinkedIn. This person is a guy who’s married and he’s 30 years old. He has been helping me a lot to get me hired in a firm he doesn’t even work in. And he’s been in constant touch with me. He keeps sending job opening details and keeps referring me using his contacts. So him and I eventually became friends. I’m 22 years old. And we have had couple of conversations on call coz it’s easier to communicate all the details that way. We had a professional relationship initially but then we became friends coz I felt like it would be easier to work with him if we were to be friends.
We don’t speak on call everyday but there are sometimes when our conversation goes up to an hour and I’ve mentioned my bf multiple times… I’ve kept talking about how amazing he is as a bf and how much I love him.
So this LinkedIn guy and I don’t flirt or anything coz I don’t entertain those things. And I’ve been careful with what I speak too. I see him as a good friend who’s helping me out and he says that too.
And my bf is aware of everything, he didn’t have an issue. But there was a time I mentioned that sometimes we would end up speaking for an hour.
Let me tell u how the conversation goes for at least 30-45 mins it’s all abt work. How he would create opportunities for me and how I could learn more.. what other divisions I could get into … also when would be the right time to switch to a different company… then abt the salary and everything and some life lessons too since he’s older to me. The last 10-15 mins is abt random conversations…
Coming back to when I told my bf about it… he didn’t like it at all… he spoke to his friend for a second opinion and now I’m a red flag apparently according to his friend.
I feel so bad rn. Coz the first thing he has ever told his friend abt me was something so bad. And I know that my bf is just tryna look out for me but I feel so embarrassed. I just don’t feel like he should even be with someone like me.
Also, every time I make any guy friends.. my bf behaves cool abt it for a bit and the. All of a sudden there are reels abt how guy best friends like the girls and how they just want to fuck. Obviously I don’t keep guy best friends I don’t need one… but I don’t think it’s wrong to have guy friends…. There were so many incidents of when there were multiple arguments coz u was speaking to another guy… and u had to either stop or go thru a really rough patch with my bf… the last time I made friends with a guy… he behaved all cool but then he went thru my phone and read my chats with that guy… obviously I had nothing to hide and it didn’t bother me but just the fact that he had that doubt in his head and that he went thru my phone affected me a lot … he also lied initially when I confronted him abt the phone thing.
I AM REALLY LOYAL AND HEAD OVER HEELS FOR MY MAN. I LOVE HIM.
But I just need to understand what’s happening here. Right now I’ve just asked for space… idk if I’m the problem here… I’m ready to leave him but I don’t wanna be a red flag in his life. I feel so bad and embarrassed that his friend sees me that way. And I also understand that sometimes it’s imp for him to confide in someone but idk it hurts a lot.
Ps: no man can replace or ever take my man’s place.. period.
I wanna make friends really. I truly love my bf but I also want to make friends. Girls and guys both. Thought of going clubbing while staying sober but just meeting new peeps.
So is it okay if I give me insta to the dudes too? If at all asked? Haven’t done this before tho been an Introvert all along but wanna get out there and make new friends uk?
Do u think it’s gonna affect my relationship?
Also note that my guy is that typa man who barely speaks to women.
Ps: hella I’m loyal but just want a lot of friends