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Problem/Goal:
As promised, ito na yung full detailed story time of how everything went down. It got so much worse , kase I found out more.

The cheating actually started last May. My ex and this girl started talking non and nagkita rin sila. I found out back then, ai didn’t do anything yet, bigla na lang sya umamin out of nowhere. He claimed he "took care of it," talked to the girl, told her he had a girlfriend, and cut her off.

Guess what? little did I know, aware pala to si kabit sakin. She knew we were still together, but she went for it still.

Nung nalaman ko na niloloko nila ko parehas, it changed everything. From my first post, wala akong pake sa girl kasi sakin, dinamay lang sya nito ni ex. Pero knowing that these two are having a whole affair while he was still with me? I decided I was going after both of them.

Context:
I LET HIN DIG HIS OWN GRAVE. I played it cool. Kunyari we’re good lang ni ex. nag agree ako sa lahat ng sinasabi nya hahaha that mf thinks I will agree sa sick terms nya. Get this, yung "terms" nya is kami still, while keeping the “easy” kabit, kase pumapayag lang nga naman sya whatever sabihin ni ex hahaha. And me? oo lang ng oo, kunyari goods. He really thought he won.

So feel nya safe place na nga, sinasabi nya mga plans nya and all nasty things about kay kabit, and of course, sino may screenshot nito? ako rin hahaha. My ex also kept lying to her, telling her that he and I were already broken up or mag bbreak, kasi waiting for her turn na si kabit eh hahahaha (even though we were very much together, and alam din ni kabit).

Previous attempts:
Yung plan ko talaga initially was to separate them so I could focus on pinning him down alone, without involving si kabit. I reached out to her just to clear things up and gather proof for my proof na isasampal kay ex. During our chat, I explicitly told her that he and I were very much together, and she fully acknowledged it. I even forwarded her my screenshots of his actual plans and how he trash-talks her, just to warn her for awareness.

Pero nagulat talaga ko how low and brainless tong si kabit. Literally A DAY AFTER knowing the truth, she was right back up in my ex's ass anyway. Kahit may screenshots and photos, she still chose to believe that liar na wala sa kanya sinabing totoo simula una hahahaha. In the span of 2 days, 4x na ata sila nag break at nag balikan, pero naniwala pa rin siya kasi akala niya “genuine” si ex hahahaha kakahiya at nakakaaw, nag aabang pa si kabit ng “explanation” sa intentions nya raw hahahaha

It gets worse, zero self-respect and di pa girls girl. Palaban pa yan, she doesn't care and leave her out of it daw, tapos kausap pa ex ko while we’re together at the time, tapos sabi ko pa wag sabihin for my safety, dedma sha, focus sya kay ex hahaha

so eto na nalaman na ni ex I reached out and completely exposed his words to his mistress, he lost his absolute mind. He got so mad, accusing me of "ruining his reputation" (siniraan ko daw siya hahahaha) and twisting things. I LEFT THEM FIGHTING sa mga sarili nilang shit HAHAHAHAH

I didn't even waste my breath arguing. Sinend ko lang yung screenshots nila sa bawat isa. It was beautiful. Watching his lies collapse right in front of him made him cry, nag panic eh hahahaha

Moving forward:
Sobrang gulo ng mundo nila and I am so glad I am no longer a part of it.

To J (kabit): Good luck babe hahaha tapang tapangan saying u don’t care, pero waiting for my leftovers. All yours babe 🫶

Again, thank you so much to all the ate's and tita's here who gave me advice and had my back when I felt like I had no one.

Problem/Goal:
I am writing this update to let everyone know na, BREAK NA KAMI FOR REAL AND I AM FREE 😭 My goal now is to share an update lang on how it went down and let you know yung mistress story pa kase it got so much worse, kase i found out more.

Context:
In my last post, I mentioned catching my 4-year boyfriend cheating. I was gathering evidence for a satisfying, petty breakup before completely blocking him. Turns out the mistress actually knew me, and the two of them were already planning to have a real relationship while he and I were still together, so as in ipag sasabay kami ganon.

Previous Attempts:
Last week, pinaplan ko na how ako mag move diba. Since then, I finally executed it, and it worked like magic, it worked so well even ako nansatisfy. I completely blindsided and attacked him and his mistress with the facts. also made him cry hahahaha, then I walked out and away and left them to deal with the mess. I've officially blocked him from my life. Sobrang gulo ng lahat and im glad im no longer a part of it, so I will be posting a full, detailed story time about the cheating and the confrontation very soon.

Again, I appreciate all the ate’s and tita’s who gave me some advice, kase i have no one, you are remembered, and thank you kahit di natin nakkita isa’t isa, you made me guys feel that you have my back.

Problem/Goal:

I caught my boyfriend of 4 years cheating. I don’t want to fix the relationship, hear his excuses, or have a long discussion about it. Gusto ko na lang tapusin and make it clear that I know what he did.

I’ve already emotionally detached, so I want the confrontation and breakup to feel like my final “cherry on top” or something satisfying but still smart, safe, and not something I’ll regret later.

Context:

He doesn’t know that I know yet. I am currently gathering and saving evidence before confronting him because I don’t want him to deny it or twist the story. I want to break up with him really soon, but I’m deciding pano ko gagawin na very satisfying saken hahaha. I’m not looking to harm him or make a huge public scene; I just want him to realize that i knew all along, and basically make fun of him the last time kase I AM READY TO BLOCK THAT PERSON SA BUHAY KO.

Previous Attempts:

I haven’t confronted him yet. For now, I’m keeping the evidence and quietly planning the breakup before he finds out that I know. So any recommendations my dear ladies, make it super petty. AND I WILL UPDATE YOU GUYS NEXT WEEK ABOUT THE BREAK UP HAHAHAHHA