u/Majestic-Web-4333

I always find myself the odd one out of every social situation. My family is a conservative theist, I am left leaning atheist. People around me are mostly apolitical. I am very vocal about my politics. My family's weekend plan is deep cleaning. Mine is to sit in my room and wonder about various topics of the world.

I just don't relate to anyone and seem to can't find the people with whom I can belong.

Is it the same for all intjs out there? That our unbiased judgment leaves us hyper aware of everyone's flaws and that constant planning and plotting over ever damn topic leaves us with strong opinions over everything.

Like on Instagram I see guys going absolutely above and beyond for their girls and doing crazy shit in love but tbh I have hardly ever expirenced that which makes me wonder what actually makes guy fall in love like that?