u/MajesticTax9887

Friend going through rough patch after cancer

Friend going through rough patch after cancer

My best friend from age 12 is going through a rough patch after cancer. He was diagnosed October 2024 with stage 3 colon cancer at age 35. He went through chemo and we would make the best of it. No one prepares you for the effects of chemo on your loved one, but he beat it. He’s been cancer free since mid last year (it’s all a blur) but unfortunately the financial effect is still affecting him and his car is about to get reposessed.

This man is such a good person and watching him go through all of this without being able to help him more is killing me. He’s been so strong but I can see him getting depressed and struggling with his mental health. It’s been one thing after another. So this morning I thought maybe I would see if someone could help just so he doesn’t lose his car and in turn lose his job.

He’s not very open with me about his financial situation ( he broke down yesterday to me) because he doesn’t want to be a burden but I know he’s about two car payments behind and his payments are about 400. So if anyone would like to help my friend Alex, I would be so grateful. I almost lost him once and I feel like I’m losing him again.

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u/MajesticTax9887 — 1 day ago
▲ 12 r/Custody

I’m the custodial parent and he has visitation every other weekend. He can also see them whenever with communication. He’s done it three times now. The first time I texted him it was fine but next time to communicate before hand because I had work. He went off about it being 50/50 and I can’t control him. I said I have no problem him spending time with them. It just needs to be communicated prior in case we have plans or something going on. The next time he showed up randomly same thing. Today he did it again. Stating I can’t control him. Is the only way to stop this filing a violation or the custody agreement?

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u/MajesticTax9887 — 23 days ago