u/Majestic_Fisherman63

So my partner and I have split up about 2 weeks ago. Around January, we had just moved into a new build her grandparents had built. We were yet to pay any rent on it, but we were working out an agreement for buying the property.

My parents bought us our couch as a gift. It cost about €2,500. After moving back in with my parents, they made it clear to me that they want that money back, as that was a gift for me for buying my first house.

I have asked my ex-partner if they're willing to pay for it but they're refusing to do so. Throwing it back in my face that I hadn't paid any rent (even though neither of us had paid any). I'm willing to take the hit on everything else that I had paid for but this is for my parents.

I really don't want to have to take legal action, I would much rather try to sort it out amicably, but if it comes to it, do I have any options?

I don't have a receipt for the sofa, but I did handle all the dealings with the shop, so it was my name on the order and it was me who paid for it.

I just want to talk to people where I dont have to put on a front. Im fairly extroverted IRL and I have friends, but apart from maybe 2/3 people ive known 10+ years, it always feels like im constantly putting my best foot forward.

Im aware that this is my own fault for caring too much about my image, but 1 just cant seem to break free of this routine. This goes doubly for girls that I meet. I feel like they love the idea of me rather than me. (Again, my own fault for not letting them in)

So if you want to get to know someone who doesn't care about pretending to be something else just to be liked, here I am. I want to try this. Its basically anonymous so it's not like have anything to lose right?

Tldr: tired of frontin, wanna start stuntin