Howdy friends! I'm going to the concert in Frankfurt, I got my seat in the back in the section J. I'm going alone cuz my friends don't have a good taste in music.
So I was just wondering if there is any lonesome fan here as well who'd be down to go together?
Hi RA folks! I have just discovered this subreddit and wanted to share how I view relationships.
I've been going through some heartbreak lately that got me reflecting about myself a lot. We didn't even date. We've been friends, but I developed feelings for him, and he's actually been sort of ghosting me lately. Anyway, these words don't really paint a full picture of our relationship and could make it sound different from what it actually is, but that's not really the point of this post.
I have always said that I am not really looking for a romantic relationship, and while this is true, I never really knew how it all worked for me until recently.
What I have discovered is that, for me, there are no labels. There is no vacancy for a "partner" position in my life, or a position for a best friend, or even a position for an extraterrestrial being with two noses. What I am looking for is meaningful connections: people who add something to my life, challenge me or my ways of thinking, and people I genuinely enjoy sharing random things with.
However, these people can later become a conventional romantic partner, a best friend, or even an extraterrestrial being with two noses (if they are one, of course).
When someone becomes important to me, they create their own category of relationship. They are like a special light bulb. Let me explain.
Let's call someone Bob. When Bob becomes dear to me, he gets some space in my heart and adds his own uniquely shaped light bulb socket there, where only he can fit, and lights the place up simply by existing.
And if he leaves, that place in my heart stays dark, because there is nothing and no one else who can replace him. This is why I find losing people particularly difficult. No one will ever take the same place as that person.
Is there anyone else who can relate?
O the bright sun
shining in the sky,
O the burning sun
blinding my eyes.
In the morning,
at the noon,
in the evening
and afternoon
And it never stops,
it is scorching hot,
I think I've sweat
quite quite a lot.
My fan is my only friend
and it's working overtime,
I love you, my fan,
I'll dispose of you when it's right.
I wake up from not sleeping,
my head aches like never,
there's no air for me to breathe,
guess that's life whatsoever.
O heatwave will be over,
it was written, I was promised,
And some day it will rain,
that's something I've ever wanted!
I don't really like long texts here. So I'll be short. Well, I am actually short so I guess that's done. Anyway, I'm Germany, in Rheinlandpfalz. I'm a student here in Embedded Systems and I'd like to get to know some nice people :)
I like absurdist humour and I can be both: really enthusiastic about texting and not texting for days sometimes. I think in the beginning texting a lot is normal but then sometimes I just get bored or I honestly forget to reply even though I wanted to and then feel weird cuz i haven't replied for days and then I forget.
Anyway I'll probably delete this after some time cuz i do this time to time lol. Idk I think I'm really picky with people. There has to be something for me to get hooked like something intellectually challenging. And a similar sense of humour for sure.
If you like Douglas Adams we will probably get along.