Why are some families like this?
My mother was married at the age of 18 . Few yrs ago I got to know the reason behind her early marriage.When she was 17 she used to like a boy and was looking at the photo of that guy and my mama found her looking at that pic and slapped her .So they got her married.She told my father about this before marriage.I feel so sorry for my mother that she had to go through this bcz of this till now she doesn't like visiting her family much.She was made to do lot of work in her childhood and lived in a joint family so had a very traumatic childhood. My sister get to know this through a cousin sister (her mom likes telling her everything).She told me this. My sister used it against her in a fight I know my sister was very angry but still. My mother was scolding her bcz she found about her bf ( my sister was 16-17 something at that time) . My sister told her she too used to have a bf naa and she will told this to my grandmother and she will throw her out of the house. I still can't get it out my head my mother was crying like hell and called my father then he consoled her.This time when I visited my nani , I asked her why she married my mother this early ?? she told me my mother was 'chanchal' so they get her married early if they hadn't she might have ruined their name.I still can't process this all