u/Mauricio121

So i am a 21 year old , 5’7 man that started dating not so long ago . I don’t have that much experience with women since i almost spent my entire life on a computer . Got ghosted 3 times so far ( i know it’s not much but it drops so hard on me everytime it happens) . Recently i started talking to a girl that i met trough a work colleague and so far we went on the first date (my first ever date) and it went pretty well , we laughed , i asked her a lot of questions about herself to try to know her better and to show her that i am interested .
She asked after if i am going to be free this week and of course i said yes . She said she wanted to go out for some coffee and chat a little . However we didn’t plan the hour and locations … so yesterday after i got home from a wedding i had to attend to i asked her about the coffee date . She said she is still down for it but only gave me a time when she was free to meet . When i asked her about a location she got pretty frustrated and asked “Do i have to take all the decisions” , and i responded with “Don’t want to be rude , but you asked me… I can chose the place but it just feels normal that if you ask me out , you would already have in mind a place where to go” . After that she said to forget it and i know for a fact she got mad . We are still talking trough text but i feel that she won’t be interested anymore if i ask her out again . She also only responds to my text , she doesn’t initiate and i know some women prefer that the man should be the one that shows the more interest . Should i keep my hope and still text her and plan dates or should i dip and try with someone else? I also want to express that i have never felt the kind of connection i felt with this woman … and i get the feeling that i may never get a date again with any other woman since she was down to go on a date in the first 2 days . She also told me she likes to take things slow to know me better ( in the way that we are friends at first )

So i am a 21 year old , 5’7 man that started dating not so long ago . I don’t have that much experience with women since i almost spent my entire life on a computer . Got ghosted 3 times so far ( i know it’s not much but it drops so hard on me everytime it happens) . Recently i started talking to a girl that i met trough a work colleague and so far we went on the first date (my first ever date) and it went pretty well , we laughed , i asked her a lot of questions about herself to try to know her better and to show her that i am interested .
She asked after if i am going to be free this week and of course i said yes . She said she wanted to go out for some coffee and chat a little . However we didn’t plan the hour and locations … so yesterday after i got home from a wedding i had to attend to i asked her about the coffee date . She said she is still down for it but only gave me a time when she was free to meet . When i asked her about a location she got pretty frustrated and asked “Do i have to take all the decisions” , and i responded with “Don’t want to be rude , but you asked me… I can chose the place but it just feels normal that if you ask me out , you would already have in mind a place where to go” . After that she said to forget it and i know for a fact she got mad . We are still talking trough text but i feel that she won’t be interested anymore if i ask her out again . She also only responds to my text , she doesn’t initiate and i know some women prefer that the man should be the one that shows the more interest . Should i keep my hope and still text her and plan dates or should i dip and try with someone else? I also want to express that i have never felt the kind of connection i felt with this woman … and i get the feeling that i may never get a date again with any other woman since she was down to go on a date in the first 2 days . She also told me she likes to take things slow to know me better ( in the way that we are friends at first )