u/Maximum_Garage_6363

Like the title says, looking to see if there are any low cost vets that do bloodwork and of the sorts. One of our cats has been having non stop peeing all over the house issues and it is getting to a point we are at our wits end.

He is only 8 years old, we had to remove all the cat trees and access to the windows, stopped them from going outside, use multiple solutions to break down the pee smell, but he will not stop and we are struggling.

are there any vets that would do bloodwork and other such investigations on him to try and find out what might be causing him to do this? normal vets just for the bloodwork is wayy out of our price range at 400-500+ for only 1 visit

Thank you!

Started playing again, I had to make a new account so have been pretty fresh in starting and only have 1 bud. I want to be able to give and get more gifts, so I wanna add more people!

My code: 159030582869

Hello! Seeking some advice on this because I genuinely care for this friend of mine and want to apologize, but I am not sure the best way to go about it.

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To preface, I am an adult with severe cptsd and audhd.

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Not going to get into the nitty gritty details, but I had a big situation with a separate friend group where I got accused of something that I did not do in the capacity they accused me of doing it. That particular friend group hadn't been good for a while so being removed from it came as a big relief. (What they accused me of also was not anything of genuine harm towards myself or anyone else)

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That put me in an extreme overwhelmed panic state, and while I was talking to my friend with bpd I ended up lying to them and 2 other friends in that group about it. I owned up to lying to the other two friends and they both forgave me.

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As I explained to them, I genuinely didnt like lying, it felt like if I didnt I would loose everything again, and no matter how honest I was it wouldn't have been enough, but that's due to the trauma from other friends and situations in the past, not them, and I wanted to come clean because they arent the people who hurt me in the past and I genuinely want to make effort to treat them as such. They also understood it came from a place of panic lying in the moment due to a bunch of stuff, and I appreciate them being willing to hear me out. (I also have already gotten back on meds that helped me regulate a lot and have therapy appointments set up to start working on myself more).

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I just have the friend with bpd to apologize to now, but this is where I'm struggling to articulate my words. This friend, the minute I didnt reply about the situation immediantly when I first had vented to them, had gone behind my back to spread things to the other 2 friends about it and began acting cold and mean, after being very overwhelmingly trying to push to fight the ex friend group even though I told them that wasn't what I wanted because I was already overwhelmed and struggling. This also isn't the first situation the past few months with said friend, they had a few really mean minor reactions to things I had tried to share with them in a positive light, and had shit on some of my interests and ghosted me so I wouldnt talk about them.

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I dont think theyre a bad person in the slightest and that's why I want to apologize to them. I also know all too well how different disabilities make things we percieve different at times, and I want to make sure my apology to them presents itself as a place of genuine wanting to take accountability and doesnt come off like attacking them.

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Any advice would be deeply appreciated!

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