Step father strikes again
I F22 grew up in a dysfunctional environment which to this day affects me. this story has many players and is long but i need some insigh.
Step father= SF ,Stepmom = SM , Mom= M Dad = D Half brother = HB Younger brother = YB older sister = S
Family friend Couple = FC
I was born in to a big house in a rich area with loving parents and a involved loving family. Things changed when i turned 2 my mom and dad had a ugly divorce, just after giving birth to my YB ( D left her for SM). Our family became distant aswell.
Me, YB, S and M moved into a small townhouse in an estate. Shorlty after my mom became good friends with a neighbouring couple who had a son the same age as YB. They became like family and we all did everything together.
Family Friend Couple introduced my mom to their life long friend. When I was 7 my mom remarried, introducing SF.
He brought joy into our home again, taking us on adventurous trips to beautiful places and his family became close to us. To me life started making sense again and i was very happy.
Then HB was born and S aged 13 moved to live with D and SM.
▫️Okay So when i turned 9….. things got very complicated and devastating. D passed away and S moved back home. a few months later she was punished, her phone taken away, not allowed to eat with us or see friends for a month. Really weird. I walked into her room one time where she was crying with a knife to her neck but as a 9 year old i was clueless, just noticed the house aura felt very off. Few months later M divorced SF telling us he is “Soul Sick“.
SF would still come over to pick up HB and we saw him almost every other day, he cane with us on vacations and was at every social event, M and SF still acted the same as when married, sort of like he was just living somewhere else. One thing I noticed was S was never there when SF was.
Forward to when I was 13, a friend came with me M HB YB and SF on a camp trip, M asked him to supervise us at the pool and thats when I started feeling very uncomfortable around him and even my friend because SF was chasing us trying to tickle us. Wierd af.
its there i started putting pieces together that something bad happened between him and my sister.
When I was 15 my sister told me the full story…
Remember when she was punished well well well. SF took S into the garage and showed her pictures he took of S and her friend while bathing on a hidden camera. then hinted towards wanting to groom he. Disturbed and scared S ran to M to tell her what happene. SF told M its a lie and M believed him. S was punished and even her friends parents did not believe her and told her they were not allowed to be friends anymore. She was 13 wtf.
After a month her friends parents decided to give her benefit of the doubt and asked her to steal his laptop. The took SF laptop to an IT person who uncovered deleted photos proving S was telling the truth.
Back to where i am now 15, SF started coming over to our house to do work and cook. I would come home from school and it was just me and SF at the house. I felt incredibly uncomfortable. After weeks of this I asked my mom that this could stop and SF could stay out of the house. M then revealed they were planning to get married again. I was crushed.
SF moved in and then Covid lockdown struck.
It was awful I stayed in my room all the time and felt very uncomfortable constantly.
I caught him snooping through my room when I was not there. Asked M for a lock on my door and she said NO. Lockdown started step down and my mom would go out for groceries. One day I was taking a shower in the bathroom connected to my moms room and heard the door open and close, thought my m cane back from the shops. After getting out of the shower i noticed something strange , a digital clock facing the room that was not there before. My heart dropped and i knew what it was. a Camera. I ran to my room to see it SF goes back to get it and he did. Wtf.
a few weeks later my best friend came over and i noticed the digital camera again in M’s room right before we wanted to shower. I grabbed it hid it in my washing basket and decided to stay at my friends house for a few weeks.
When I went back the digital clock was missing from my washing basket. reminder i was 16 at the time. i moved to my S house for a month and the first time in 2 weeks where m visitits guess who she brings with her, Yeah SF.
Fast forward i spent months showering in the dark and dressing underneath my bedroom sheets in the the dark when getting ready for school.
one night I was lying in bed scrolling tiktok, and i saw someone peaking over the wall outside my bedroom. Shocked as i watched a shadow approaching out front door thinking someone is going to break in… then I saw it was SF.
i ran to M crying telling what happened and she asked him about it he denied and she said to me what do you want me to do about it and went back to bed.
I started skipping school and living either at my bf house or friends. one day ehile at home i saw an opportunit, the first time M and SF left the house toghether in month. i grabbed YB and we started snooping through SF’s stuff. I found it !!!!! The digi camara smashed up inside a pencil case along with 100s of usb.
YB and I took the Usb and thought to see was on there and the first one we tried had 1000s of personal photos from my sisters Google photos accoun. I immediately called S and she told me to get out of the house to my bf where S’s friends parents who helped before will pick up the pencil case.
Told M if he is not out of the house Im not coming back. M never asked if I was okay just told me to give her a week. My bf broke uo with me and i then moved in to S’s friends parents home who also took me to school.
ill leave it there for now.