So just like an hour ago, I came out to my sister and told her I was transfem. She was a little surprised, but also sort of expected it since she knew I was a femboy. She's aroace herself and was very supportive about it, just felt like sharing here since it made me very happy >w<
My name is Alex, and I find it to be pretty gender neutral, but I would also like to try out how it feels to be referred to as Alexa (both with she/her)
thank u :3
So I do plan on coming out to my parents eventually, however I've presented myself my entire life as pretty masculine and I don't want to flabbergast them, I kinda want to ease them into it so it's not as much of a shock when I come out. I have long hair but that's about it as far as femininity goes. So what are some good ways to be a little more feminine without being too far out of the blue?
I'm so happyyyyyyy it went so well!!!!!!!!
So first I told her that I was pansexual, but she apparently actually already knew that from reading my art fight bio of all things, but she even came out to me herself that she's aroace! Which in retrospect makes a lot of sense, knowing her but I never really thought about it and it's cool she told me :3 So after that, I told her that I like the idea of and want to dress more femininely, and she was really sympathetic and understanding and kind and aggggghhhh im so happy im grinning like an idiot typing this.
She even mentioned that she has some old earrings she doesn't wear anymore that I could have after I told her I want my ears pierced! I'm genuinely so giddy right now it feels so good to have told someone after having it bottled up for so long.
anyways make sure to stay hydrated drink some water ilysm okay byeeeeee :3
So I've really loved the idea of getting earrings for some time, but this post isn't about whether I should get them or not. I need some good ways to ask my mom for permission that she might agree with.
Earrings are soooooo cute i want my ears pierced so bad~ :3
I guess I just kinda wanted to mention it here, but I recently tried out some female marketed conditioner in my past couple of showers and really love the smell of it in my hair. I genuinely just can't resist smelling it. I'm not 100% sure of the smell, it's definitely floral, but all the labels are in Italian. For some context, about a month back, the Italian exchange student we had a few years ago came by to visit and obviously brought some hair products, but she wasn't able to take them back through airport security so she just left them in our shower. They kinda just sat there until recently I started wanting to appear more feminine so I tried it out and afterwards (even right now as I type this) I can't resist just pulling my hair down to smell it I love it so much :3
I'm also surprised at how long the scent lasts, I showered last night and the smell persisted overnight and I only really stopped noticing it in the evening. I'm so happy I found a really subtle way to feel more feminine without anyone noticing. I know it's not the craziest thing, but it made me happy and I wanted to share it here :3
So for context, I've recently been discovering myself more and I have found out that I really want to appear more feminine. Just the thought of wearing a dress makes me feel all warm and tingly inside. I'm a closeted pansexual teen, living in a household with my parents and two siblings. Me and my dad are ex-mormon, (he left somewhat after marrying my mom, I left late last year, though I was never really into any of the beliefs), but my mom, sister, and little brother are still mormons. My mom was fortunately accepting enough to respect my decision and not force me to go to church and give away my money to what is basically a glorified pyramid scheme, but the mormon belief is that acting on same-sex desires is a sin and stops me from going to "super heaven", and as a pansexual, obviously these two don't correlate, and my mom is highly into mormonism.
Our house is really strange and the only doors that have locks are the bathrooms and my parents room. People barge into my room all the time to ask for things, and for some stupid reason, our color printer is in my room? I don't know why my mom couldn't have just found another spot for it, but she acts like I'm the ridiculous one for not wanting a family device in my room. Stupidest of all, some of my little brother's extra clothes are in the unused bottom shelves of my dresser. (He's like, 8 but it's so damn annoying having him barge in all the time). This is also sort of unrelated, but I can't have much contact with my highly supportive online friends due to insanely restrictive parental controls on my phone, I'm literally writing this on my school issued chromebook they forgot I have at 3am.
I don't have a credit card, can't order anything online, and don't have a car yet to drive out to a physical location to buy things. I know the best thing to do is to probably wait until I can get those things, but it's so hard not being able to try anything on or experience wearing feminine clothes, since I've just been itching to so badddd.
I'm sure my sister would be supportive, since despite being technically mormon, I have a feeling she really doesn't care about a lot of the beliefs and just goes along with it because she grew up with it and doesn't want to disappoint our mom. I'm still really scared of the idea of even telling her.
If anyone has any advice on ways I could potentially try to dress up a bit more, please let me know. I understand if it's impossible now, given my circumstances, but I would appreciate any support right now.
thank you~ :3
So my family has owned a switch 1 for some time now and I am about to purchase a switch 2. We have a NSO family plan, and I want my profile alongside the digital library and save files for games to transfer over while still remaining on the switch 1. I have heard that since the majority of games were not purchased under my account, I will not be able to access them if the switch 2 is made the secondary console. Making the switch 2 primary is also out of the question due to me purchasing it as my own personal device, rather than a family device. I am also aware that the same game cannot be played on the ns1 and ns2 at the same time. I have only purchased a few games on my account on the ns1, so what is the best course of action? We also do have quite a few physical games, but I am aware that they will work.