u/Menglinzhu

I (23M) have been confused about this for a while and figured I'd ask here.

I've only been in one relationship, with a woman, and we never had sex. I do feel sexual attraction to women. I watch women's content on social media and that does it for me. When I masturbate, I watch straight porn with a man and a woman.

Here's where it gets confusing. I spend a lot of time on TikTok watching guys with abs and muscular bodies. It's not something I seek out intentionally every time, but the algorithm keeps pushing more of it to me, and I keep watching. And it's not just aesthetic appreciation. I actually get erections and turned on by it.

But here's the thing. The idea of actually being with a man doesn't do anything for me. I've never wanted to date a guy, and the thought of anal sex specifically is something I just can't see myself doing. I don't have anything against gay people at all. It's just not something I want for myself.

So am I bisexual? Or is this something else? Like, can you be physically aroused by male bodies without actually being attracted to men? Has anyone else experienced this?

Just trying to figure myself out. Thanks in advance.