u/Middle_Act6264

"I've been here the whole time!"

I'll listen to and enjoy almost anything, I have very wide taste
BUT if you need something to go off of here's some groups / artists I already really like

- Will Wood

- That Handsome Devil

- Tally Hall

- Gogol Bordello

- STOMACH BOOK

- I listen to a lot of old (30s-80s) Jazz

- Stevie Wonder

Just a gif of my favorite Enby character of all time

So I've been struggling with my identity for quite some time, I came here a while ago because I didn't need to decide on what I am here. And while I still really like that about the place, finally did it anyway. After a very long time of struggling with how I feel and what I want to be I finally figured out I'm just nonbinary. Starting to use they/them among close friends, and it's made me very happy. I also want to start presenting more femininely, but that's less because of gender identity and more because 'I think the vibe and aesthetic would be pretty cool"

It's not all sunshine and WOKE ASS PUSSY LIB RAINBOWS (JOKE JOKE JOKE DON'T KILL ME), because actually starting to do the transition stuff into how I want to be is really hard with my situation at the moment due to family and location stuff, but I'll figure it out and even if I don't I'm sure it'll improve over time. Also since my egg broke I've started getting Gender Dysphoria a lot worse, or at least I stopped pushing it down. I don't know how ya'll deal with this but I'm sure I'll figure it out (gods I hope so)

Anyway as the good news is that there are some small ways I can start presenting how I want to. I'm getting my ears pierced soon, and I'm going to get a large sunhat (idk if that'll make me feel better or not, I just want a big sunhat)
ALSO normally I can wear long pants and sleeves (I hate showing off skin), but rn in my town there's a heatwave so I really can't. (Hopefully that passes soon)

I feel like I need to involve some humor of a sort in here.
Uh...
gender? I hardly know 'er!
...

please feel free to laugh now

TLDR: I Realized I was nonbinary and it's very nice and screw the libs putting the woke mind virus in the water or something I guess.

Your oc is walking in a city at night when they hear cursing coming from an alleyway. They see Arlo, looking very pissed off and annoyed, kicking the wall repeatedly. It's clear he's spanking, like something has gone wrong. Between the curses you can hear him muttering under his breath stuff about portals and failing magic.

This just seems to be a bit of a trend rn, and I'm very bored