u/MikeSpecter0815

M26, been single for almost 2 years now (ex cheated). Now, I'm healed and all of that. I focused on myself, went into running, hiking, and a lot of other side quests. Masaya naman maging single, I get to have my own time and enjoy doing things alone. I have peace in a sense na walang sinusuyo, walang unnecessary away, hindi nag ooverthink kung ako pa ba lol. I get to really do my thing. I focused on my career, myself, and my family. And it's funny being the only single person on most social circles and being the most awaited one to hard launched someone 😭

But sometimes mapapasabi ka na lang talaga na Lord gusto ko na ulit magmahal HAHAHAHAHA 10 PM things. Lord gusto ko na ulit kiligin, gusto ko na ulit bumili ng just because flowers para i surprise partner ko, I wanna get stressed about planning for dates, I wanna try some new restaurant or watch a movie, I wanna walk under the night sky and do grocery dates and any errand dates. I wanna try to cook and sing out of tune songs in the kitchen. I wanna start writing cheesy love letters again and find some cute gifts.

Pero deep inside I know I still haven't reached my career goals, personal goals, financial goals. I know I'm still young but at the same time I'm also already 26. I am really looking forward to finding the love of my life, and start traveling and experiencing things together. I want to be with someone who is sure of me. Someone who is also really looking forward to building a life together not just some casual fling.

I still need to complete some of my goals, and most importantly, I need to be more financially stable as dating and being in a relationship can be costly. I want to provide all things to my future partner and be able to enjoy life together.

Hay LOML, please wait a little longer as I continue to build myself and my life.

Hi, let's say I have a TD in Metrobank in the 6 digits (I know it's not much), is there any way I can get a home loan from them amounting to a max of 1M? I have no collateral.

Additional context: I got a preselling house in the province, and dapat Pag Ibig financing sya, kaso lilipat na ko ng work, so hindi na daw aabot sa pag ibig, ang option ko na lang ay mag in house financing amounting to 16 percent PA. I can afford it naman, kaso unsettling lang, ang laki masyado ng interest huhu and I don't have any collateral talaga.

Eh lilipat pa lang akong work, I can't provide a COE an Payslip yet for the new company. I have a CC from another bank then the reservation form for the presellng house and statement of payment of full equity, not sure if that helps. Any tips, suggestions, or ideas will be much appreciated, thank you!