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Screamed at & called names because I forgot parsley at the store. He acts like I forgot it on purpose. He doesn’t understand that at age 53 I forget things sometimes🤷‍♀️

My narc husband has already started ruining what is supposed to be a special day today. Our youngest daughter graduated from our local community college today. It started when we got out of the car to walk in. He was standing on the sidewalk in the rain waiting for his parents and I told him I was gonna go ahead and walk in and get a seat and he told me to go to hell. Now that we are at home he is fussing at me because he wants me to make him a hair appointment for today and also dinner reservations for tomorrow night all the while he’s just sitting on the couch doing nothing. I asked him if he could do something and he told me that I was a nag and that I needed him more than he needed me.

This particular hotel is more per night than our house payment and I told him that was ridiculous because we would only be there at night to sleep. So he flies off into a rage, yelling and screaming, and saying all sorts of stuff. And then literally five seconds later he was fine as if it never happened. I feel like he’s always using the phrase set him free because he’s wanting a divorce, but he doesn’t want to be the bad guy in initiate it. Also, after his screaming fit, he said now I know why some men turn gay.🤣🤣

He grilled some steaks for us for dinner tonight, and when I cut into mine, it was medium rare. I like mine cooked a little more than that and he has a whole meltdown when I told him that I needed it cooked a little more. He grabbed the steak with his hands, took it outside to the grill on his way out he slammed the back door so hard I thought the glass was going to shatter out of it. He brought it back inside and threw it on my plate and told me if I didn’t like it I could go back outside and cook it myself. I cut into it and it looked like it was still exactly the same so I just continued eating my baked potato and when I finished that he asked me if I was going to eat the steak and I just told him that I was full and maybe I might eat it later on. He grabs the steak off of my plate with his hands and gives it to the dog. He did not even put it in the dog bowl. The dog was near the table. He gave it right to the dog in his mouth so the dog is sitting there, dropping it all over the floor, making a whole complete mess. So at this point, I went outside to the backyard to read my book and then after he’s finished eating, he comes out there and proceeds to turn on the music full blast because he knows I’m reading so then I came inside the house and noticed that he did not clear away any of his dishes off the table. He left everything on the dining room table, his glass, plate, condiments, all of it, just left it there and went outside to smoke a cigar.

Hoping to purchase some for my daughter!

Wondering if I should order a few today because I’m afraid they’ll sell out quickly during SAS