When do you call it quits?
TW: Miscarriage.
I’m in my overall total 7th Letrzole and Ovidrel cycle. 6 cycles where I ovulated. 5 cycles with a trigger shot. Multiple mature follicles each cycle. My second Letrozole cycle where I ovulated I got pregnant but ended up having a rare intrauterine pregnancy called an angular pregnancy where it implanted in a weird spot in my uterus and didn’t have the blood flow to develop so I had a D&C on February 20th of this year.
I’ve done 4 cycle since then and this cycle I was super hopeful because I had 4 mature follicles when I triggered but today I’m 12DPO and I still have a negative pregnancy test. I’m tired. I’m worn out. I know life isn’t fair but god damn I’ve been through enough in my life, that this just sucks.
When do you decide to give up and accept you will probably never have children? We could do IUI but I really don’t think that’ll increase our odds very much. And we can’t afford IVF as our insurance doesn’t cover it.
I’m 30, he’s 34. My HSG last October was clear, my husband’s SA is great. I’m just so over it all. All of my friends and family that started trying after us are already pregnant and due AFTER I was supposed to be due with my first pregnancy, which is literally next month. I was desperately hoping I’d be pregnant again by then but this was the last shot at that hope.