u/MinutesTilMidnight

Hello! My friend (26M, forever GM) and I (23F, player for 1.5y) are looking to join a D&D campaign! Both of us prefer to join a new campaign over one that’s been running for a while. We are interested in groups that are for adults only.

We are not attached to any specific character concepts, and prefer to make characters that fit into the world we are joining. We both enjoy high fantasy, LotR type stuff, but definitely open to other things. Ideally would like to play long-term.

We both have Discord for voice. Strongly prefer Roll20 for VTT.

This post is a bit long! If you don’t read it, please don’t message me. I’d love to read a long message about you in response ;)

About Me:
I’m 23, a cis white woman, and currently a university student. I consider myself bubbly, silly, and fun, but I can also be a bit awkward and socially anxious. I have been diagnosed with ADHD, and most likely have level 1 autism too. I think these things make me more fun! I will add that I get along best with other AuDHD people, but that is not a requirement whatsoever :) I love tabletop games like D&D, video games, reading, singing (but it makes me nervous), and learning new things. I want to get better at crocheting, sewing, and some other things. I am in a sorority at my uni, and I have a few different friend groups. I don’t really like to party, though I will drink with my friends on occasion.

I go to the gym multiple times a week, and see a personal trainer. I have lost 30lbs/14kg and want to lose much more. I am really interested in martial arts and archery, so as I lose more weight I am hoping to spend some time in these sports. On that note, I am not interested in anyone with a feeding fetish, or anything along those lines. That is a hard limit. I definitely have kinks of my own (see title for a hint!), but I prefer to discuss that a bit later into getting to know someone. Let’s see some compatibility first :)

I am passionate about children and education, which is fitting considering my major in uni is elementary education. I want to have a family of my own someday. I am hoping to move to Ireland or the UK in about 2-4 years, but if I meet the right person and he’s somewhere else, then those plans may change. That being said, I do not want to stay in the USA, and will not stay here for any man. Send a fruit emoji along with your message please. Politically, I consider myself a progressive/demsoc, but you don’t necessarily have to be the same. We can absolutely have a difference of opinion on truly political matters, but I will not be partnered with someone who has a difference of opinion on which groups deserve human/civil rights.

About My Ideal Man:
I don't know how to say this without it sounding like I am egotistical, so I'm just going to be blunt. I need my man to be somewhat close to my level of intelligence. For reference, I have a top 1% IQ (that’s not the best or the only way to measure intelligence, but it’s one most people know, so that’s what I’m going with). I want to be with somebody who I feel I can trust and respect as an equal. I think nerds, geeks, etc are incredibly sexy. I’ve gotten horny over a specific man talking to me about calculus before. I come from a family of scientists and engineers, so I assume it’s genetic. It is what it is, I’m not ashamed. Our kids will be geniuses! >:3

I strongly prefer men who are around 25-35 years old. Helps with the dominant vibe I am looking for ;) Any older than 35 and I would be concerned that we are too far apart in age to connect well. Will probably not consider anyone over 40, primarily because that’s getting too close to my dad's age and I imagine that would be a really awkward conversation I’d eventually have to have.

I have no dealbreakers when it comes to looks, as long as you try to take care of yourself (hygiene, etc). I have preferences, but I don’t really want to list them in case it discourages people from messaging. Put a mythical animal emoji next to the other emoji please (just double checking!). Honestly, I care way more about what you sound like than what you look like. A sexy voice really does it for me.

Dealbreakers:

• Doesn’t want children
• Wants to live in the USA
• Unintelligent men
• Racist, homophobic, or transphobic actions or beliefs
• Submissive men
• Too much older than me
• Has a feeder or related fetish
• Wants a vanilla (non-kinky) relationship

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