u/Mission-Sherbert8764

I will be flying to Chicago so I can put my late father's ashes to rest since that is where he was from. However, I have no knowledge on what Chicago was like now since the last time I went there I was 12. Another plan is to explore different monuments in Chicago and join tour guides for safety. I don't want to be that tourist who ends up staying in a hotel all day the whole week and not do anything. I am also interested in events and socializing new people. Is Chicago a good place for meeting new people?

I (F26) dreaded visiting extended family (Filipino) because of this reason. Some titas would be asking/pestering me why I don't have a bf and when will I get a bf or get married. Heck, I was asked when will I lose my v-card. Also, they said it is not normal for people my age to have never experienced these things and why won't I be just like my cousins who have already started dating/getting married/having kids.

I am fuming and anxious because I prefer friendships and being an auntie over romantic/sexual relationships and being a parent.

I headcanon America being on the spectrum and uses his friendly and outgoing persona to mask it to act "neurotypical".His brother Canada can "see" America through the mask. On the other hand, Japan is also on the spectrum, but unlike America, he is not shy to show his quirks.

Also, I headcanon Canada as ADHD inattentive type, who often forgets to clean his home and has no routine. He often procrastinates and goes with the flow. Once fixated, he usually gets things done. America sometimes visits his brother and cleans his house..

Veneziano is AuDHD.