u/Mobile-Television437

Merhaba ben 21 yaşında bir erkek bireyim.
Ömrüm boyunca kilomdan dolayı herkesten zorbalık yedim hakarete uğradım tanıdık tanımadık herkes kiloma laf ediyordu.Babam sağolsun çocuklarıyla ilgili hiç olmadığından düşünüyorum kendimi hiç savunamadım.Yıllar geçti ben zayıfladım tipim iyi para iyi araba iyi ama bilin bakalım bana noldu.
Eskiden suratıma bakmayan kızlarla şimdi hergün bakışıyorum ancak gidipte merhaba diyecek cesaretim yok.Bırakın cesareti kaçıyorum resmen.Bu durumu yaşayan buna benzer olayları gören bana tavsiye verebilir mi

After quitting pornography, I realized that pornography itself wasn't the real problem. My need to feel desired simply shifted toward dating apps instead. I've already experienced two sextortion attempts. I now realize that the form of my urge has changed, but its root is still the same. I want to break this cycle and finally deal with the real issue instead of just replacing one unhealthy behavior with another.

As someone who spent a long time addicted to porn and masturbation, I also feel a deep hunger for love and affection. And when I get into a relationship, it feels like it’s the purpose of my life, as if nothing else matters. Has anyone else experienced this? I’d really appreciate any advice, brothers. I was overweight for a long time btw

Alright I am not an incel or something guys.It’s about my journey.I saw a girl on the bus yesterday. We looked at each other, and when we got off the bus, she was walking in front of me. Then she turned around and looked at me again. I wasn’t man enough to go and talk to her. This is the second time this has happened. My girlfriend also broke up with me because I wasn’t man enough to have sex with her. I know I’m not gay or anything… I just don’t know what’s wrong with me. I need help, brothers.