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Guys perspective: Am I overthinking my boyfriend’s coworker?
My boyfriend has a female coworker that keeps triggering my jealousy even though nothing is explicitly romantic. They work closely, he helps her sometimes (rides/carrying stuff), she shares food with him, and he casually mentions her often. He’s transparent about everything, which makes me feel guilty for even feeling this way.
The problem is our relationship also started from emotional closeness/familiarity, so I think proximity scares me more than it should.
I don’t want to be controlling, but I also can’t tell if my feelings are valid or if I’m just anxious.
u/Mobydich — 17 hours ago