Co-Parent is defying the judge's order for visitation.
Location: California
(I do not have a lawyer)
The order was written last month. I was granted two hours of supervised visitation with a list of monitors to choose from. I chose three (as stipulated by the judge), including the one recommended by the judge. She is refusing the judge's order by stating they aren't to her standards, among other things, via Talking Parents. Here's what I did:
I filed an FL-300 (Request for order) to address this. Trial date set for the middle of next month.
Had the sheriff's dept serve her - but they haven't attempted yet, it was only 3 days ago.
Forgot to include the blank response. Panicked.
Emailed the sheriff to not serve her. They responded, confirming.
Went back to court to have the trial date vacated to a later date because she likely wouldn't be served in time (She dodges, we'll have to use substitute service). It should take a week for a response.
From what I'm reading on the OCSD's self-help, an RFO can be mailed by a server (along with a few other papers:
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/request-for-order/serve-request-mail
Now I have to wait a week or so for a response about a new trial date.
My question is: Am I doing everything right? I'm scared either the person who approves the process will disagree or the judge will say I did something wrong, please help.