Fun patches: earn as a troop or on our own?
We’re first year Girl Scouts, so we’re pretty new and not sure what the norm is. I’ve seen patches like the “Girl Scouts Love the Outdoors” and the set of America 250 patches that come with a list of activities to complete to earn them. I was under the impression that we could do these activities on our own, and earn the patches individually. Our troop leader disagrees, and doesn’t want some of the girls to have them and some not.
I understand the desire for fairness, but our council also hosts a variety of events that can earn fun patches. (Sporting events, day at the zoo, etc.) So I feel like she’s asking us to avoid those events as well unless we plan to attend as a whole troop. She has also stated that she is just too busy to be planning extra things right now. Which I understand, but also, the “extra” is what drew us to Girl Scouts. I don’t want my daughter to miss these experiences because our troop leader doesn’t want to plan or attend them.
Thoughts? Are there official “rules” for earning fun patche?