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Hello, I’m in a difficult situation and need to find a loving new home for my cat, Kisa.

I’ve had her since February of this year. She is a rescue — my work bestie found her sitting on her doorstep, and the poor thing stayed there the entire time. My friend lives in an apartment complex with many military families, so I suspect Kisa may have been left behind when someone moved away.

Kisa is a very sweet girl, and I truly wish I could keep her. I would prefer for her to go to an indoor only home. She has been outside a few times, but only under supervision.

Unfortunately, ever since I had her spayed in April, she has become very aggressive toward my dog. Last evening, I was nearly hurt while trying to intervene during one of these incidents. Because of this, I believe she would do best in a home without other pets or small children.

My dog is very gentle and well-behaved and does not do anything to provoke her. I have taken her to the vet multiple times regarding this aggressive behavior. I’ve tried pheromone plug-ins, pheromone collars, calming treats, and eventually Prozac. She has since refused to take it, and it also seemed to cause constipation.

I’ve invested a lot of time, care, and money into helping her because I truly want what’s best for her. Finding her a safe and loving home would mean so much to me. She will also come with all of her supplies and belongings at no cost.

Name: Kisa

Age: Approximately 4 years old

Color/Breed: Tabby

Gender: Female

u/Mom_kasa713 — 3 days ago

Am I aromantic?

Had someone mention in another community that I may be aromantic and I am honestly not sure if I would count as aromantic. For more context, I'm a straight 25F and have only ever been in one relationship (and it was very short). I feel like I like the idea of romance. I will see a random guy and be like "what a beautiful man". But i am always very uncomfortable when "I try to put myself out there" or go on the dating apps. I have stopped doing both of those things because they give me so much anxiety. Also, when I do start talking to men, that's typically when the attraction stops as they typically say or do something that gives me the "ick". I have only had real feelings for someone as an adult once. I never acted on those feelings because I didn't want to ruin the friendship and deep down, knew it wouldn't work out long term. However, I only had those feelings for him after knowing him for 9 months. So idk if anyone else feels the same or if I'm just an odd ball lol

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u/Mom_kasa713 — 28 days ago

Does anyone have any advice for when your parents say you're sad for being single?

Extra context: 25 and I live with my parents and I've told them that a boundary we need to keep is to not talk about relationships. Typically talking about relationships, when it comes to me, tends to make me uncomfortable. I am, at least, I think I am, happily single, but my parents say otherwise??? Along with my therapist who is a man (I've switched therapists since then). My mom made the comment that if I don't put any effort out there, I'm not going to find anyone. It just hurts when she says these things but I'm so sick and tired of men. I like having my freedom and doing what I want whenever I want. At this point, I don't know if I'm gaslighting myself into thinking I'm happy being single or if others are gaslighting me into thinking I'm actually sad. Idk if this makes any sense. I guess I just want some validation lol 🥲🫠👍🏻

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u/Mom_kasa713 — 28 days ago