Doctoral study interview

Hello all,

I have been invited to phd interview in Finland. How does it look like here? Is it just qna or discussion based? Would you share some tips and tricks? Do you think you could have done better if you had prepared "this" earlier? (I'm from non-STEM background). I am super super nervous and I don't even know what I should ask you guys coherently 😭 I'm having palpitation and stomach ache

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u/More-Ad7187 — 23 hours ago

I want to get it off of my chest

I have vaginusmus. My boyfriend and I are in 11 year long relationship. He has lots of patience and I told him in the beginning that I do not want to have penetrative sex because it is so painful. He said he did not need it so we did other types of sex. But recently he has lost his patience and I was feeling guilty and thus consented to have PIV. He could not get even one finger inside and I experience excruciating pain. We tried several times, slowly but of course my vaginusmus will not let it. Every time he becomes frustrated, irritated, and angry. Now I hate be around him. I flinched when he tries to touch me. I have lost all my interest in him. I have stopped talking to him, I just talk when it is absolutely necessary. I ordered dialator but I think I do not want to try them. I just do not like to be around my boyfriend now. I become happy when he is at work. idk if it is normal.

Sorry for my English. It is my 3rd language :/

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u/More-Ad7187 — 30 days ago

Should I write my very own vulnerable experience?

Hello, I am a bit noob as this will be my first attempt to write a motivation letter for a doctoral project. The study is about racialized migrant workers's experience in a specific country. I was wondering if I should write about my own experience as an immigrant. Will it be too anecdotal and personal?

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u/More-Ad7187 — 2 months ago

What is wrong with this?

The leaves are curling inwards and have insignificant growth. I googled and it says it lacks water. However, I touched the soil and it was moist. It's been like this since the winter although I used growth light.

u/More-Ad7187 — 2 months ago

How dare you not write a Shakespearean sonnet to the hiring manager when you’ve been unemployed for two years, you absolute peasant.

u/More-Ad7187 — 2 months ago