u/MoreToe6428

I know my partner from HS. Myself, my partner and 4 other mates were in a friend group. My partner and I started dating 2 years after HS. I was always to one the one encouraging him to check on our other friends, because I kept in touch with them and was always uncomfortable when our friends from HS would ask me about him because he didn’t do much of an effort to check on them.

My partner and I are comfortable with using each other’s phones. And one day, I was casually looking through some photos on his phone, and couldn’t help but notice a pattern he had many photos of one my friends that he screenshotted from her socials status. That rubbed me the wrong way, so I decided to go look at their messages. I noticed that he would occasionally call my friend “my queen”, and some light flirtatious comments that could pass as compliments, but felt more than that to me. I decided to question him about it, he apologized, but try to reassure me by telling me that she’s our friend I have nothing to worry about there.

Sometime went by, but continued to occasionally look into messages the he’s sending her. I confronted him a second about something else that made me uncomfortable. That time he got mad at me, saying that I’m insecure, and making me feel like I was seeking a problem where there was none. I let it go and never talked about it again.

Fast forward to today, i went to check on their messages again, I notice that he locked their messages with a code so I can’t see them anymore. I don’t know how to address it. Am I too insecure or should I be concerned?

Here’s a couple of things worth noting:

- while we were in the friend group in HS, I was never as close to that girl as I was to the others
- my now partner told me long ago, that he and that girl a briefly dated when they were kids (9th grade, before our friend group was formed)
- we graduated 10years ago, except for I and my partner everyone else lives in different cities

Can you tell me about your experience with the interview process. I applied for the CSM track in Atlanta. I could gather some details about the process from other posts, but I’d like to have a clear understanding about what to expect from beginning to the offer. How many interviews? Is the meeting with the recruiter considered as one of the formal interviews?