u/More_Appointment_864

For context we have been dating for 1.5 years. My (16f) boyfriend (18m) constantly buys me things. Almost every day we hang out he spends at least 20 dollars on me. If I even glance in the direction of something I might like he will buy it for me. He also has a full time job that pays well so he has a lot of extra money. He’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met and has bought me things like concert tickets, clothes, cds, technology, basically anything I talk about or mention i like.

We also don’t hang out at his house often because his parents make me feel very uncomfortable. And my house is 100 percent not safe to hang out in.

He doesn’t expect me to pay him back in any way, he doesn’t expect me to make him anything or do anything sexual at all. If I tell him I don’t want to kiss even he apologizes for initiating it to begin with. There is no ill intentions behind him buying me things, he just really really loves me.

The thing is that I genuinely get so emotional every time he buys me things. I start genuinely sobbing because I feel like I don’t deserve it and I beg him to stop buying me things. He tells me he’ll never stop giving me things because I deserve everything he gives me and more. The thing is I really really appreciate everything he gets me, even the plastic bags they come in I keep them because I feel so bad for throwing them away.
Probably some of the largest sums of money he has spent on me is when

1. He went to Japan and brought back 400 dollars worth of clothes and trinkets. I’m not kidding he genuinely spent 400 dollars on whatever random stuff he found and made him think of me.
   2 on my birthday he bought me 80 dollars of cds in the store when I originally told him that it was okay to spend just 20 at the most. He also bought me a lot of snacks after that.
2. At a concert he spent 80 dollars on merch for me, I asked him just for the cards they were selling but he bought me the cards and a shirt.

I just keep telling him to stop buying me so much because it makes me feel so guilty! How am I supposed to ever make it up to him when literally he spends 100 bucks on me a week probably. I literally beg him to stop buying me so much and I cry about it in front of him but he just hugs me and tells me it’s okay and he’ll never stop giving me everything he can and that I deserve more.

It’s been like this our entire relationship pretty much but just much less at the beginning since he just worked part time and had less money.

I will say that I do really enjoy going out and going on trips with him to nearby towns and cities but I don’t really feel too bad about that since it’s an experience we’re both having. And also I wanna say that I really appreciate everything he gets me and I cherish them and display them all on my shelf. And every time he gets me food I eat it all because I can’t stand the thought of wasting something he got me.

Something he’ll also do which is kinda rage baiting and he knows I don’t believe him is he’ll go into a store and say that they were just ‘giving away things’ like bro are we serious

But yeah I really really love him and I just don’t know if I’m really overreacting or not since he is spending so much money on me. Again I want to say there is absolutely nothing he expects me to do to make up for it and he has never even hinted at it at all in the 18 months we’ve been together.
But yeah someone please tell me if I’m overreacting! 😭😭