u/Morrigankami

Hey guys! I've never really used Reddit to find dates but I'm sick of using hinge so I'm trying this out with an open mind.

I'm 18M and I live in Meath, however I'm currently in college in Belfast so I spend most of my time up there. I'm into sports and all your typical boy stuff. I'm pretty laid back in general so I don't really have a type, I also don't mind somebody older because if we vibe we vibe yk. I also don't mind something casual as I'm pretty bogged down with school work atm. Either suits.

I drink socially, I don't smoke often but I won't say no if offered on a night out or a casual smoke sesh.

Just a warning in advance Im a horrible texter, I'd like to say I'm much more charismatic in person than online even though I have a pretty heavy online presence. I just don't like communicating through a screen.

Anyways yeah, that's bio and if I seem interesting enough hmu with a dm!

Just had a hot girl over and everything was going well until it was time to get down to business. I got really nervous and couldn't get it up despite trying four times. This always happens, I'm ready to go up until the actual sex part, then I get nervous and psyche myself out. It's like my penis has a mind of it's own, whenever I go over to a girls and she explicitly states that she doesn't want to do anything sexual, it's as hard as a rock the entire night. But when the girl is down to fuck I just can't get it going no matter how much I try. She ended up making up an excuse and went home early, now I'm really beating myself up for it. Its not that I'm not aroused, I am. I just can't seem to get out of my own head and it just always kills my erections.

Should I get pills to help with the mental block? This has happened multiple times now and it's like a vicious cycle, you can probably guess how it goes. Go home from the club with a hot girl, things work out right and I'm going to get lucky, we start the foreplay and I'm immediately starting to worry about if I'll get an erection or not. End up not getting and erection and killing my libido because I'm just so anxious about performing. I get raging morning wood 4/5 times a week and I'm also hard when I masturbate. Its just when it comes to a girl I just can't seem to get over the hump.

18M4F Meath/Antrim Not expecting anything, giving this a go since I don't like using dating apps

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