r/IrishDates

36[F4M] [Dublin] - Looking for a lean pretty-boy type for regular meets. Open to travel.

Hey there,

I'm looking to connect with a specific rare physical type for fun meetups – no labels, but I'm going for something regular, not a one-off. I am based in Dublin, Ireland and can host. Also open to travelling anywhere within the UK and Ireland for the right match.

My type:

Athletic, lean, or slim build

Very pale/porcelain skin and smooth/hairless (aka twink)

That refined clean "pretty-boy" aesthetic - no beards

The kinda chap that looks sexually ambiguous without trying (No hipsters please)

Late 20s to mid 40s

Bonus points for striking blue/green eyes and ginger/blond spectrum

Soulful and authentic

Creative streak with an edge

Ideally Dublin city accent

About me – tall and lean/athletic female (bisexual/queer), dark hair, olive skin tone. I've nice sensitive skin and I'm highly sensual. I'd say I'm intelligent, direct and no-bullshit. I'd be hard to pin down stylistically but I hang out with ravers, writers, nerds, punks, scientists and misfits. Make of this what you may. Ask me anything if you dare.

Do not reply unless you are willing to swap at least 2 clear face pics - I am very specific about what I'm looking for and wouldn't want to waste your time or mine.

Do not reply unless you are willing to meet in a safe public place (bar/cafe).

No endless texting. Do not contact me unless you can meet within 48 hours.

Thanks for reading!

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u/nightingale568 — 1 day ago

Up for friendship ? 31M

Roasting me? Go for it

Data Scientist (Individual Contributor) & believer in keeping it 100.

Habits: Smoke a couple of times a day, hit the gym regularly.

The Catch: I'm terrible at opening up to people right away. (It takes me a while to process things—sometimes quick, usually painfully slow.)

The Good News: Once we actually click, you definitely won't be bored. (At least, I think so. 🤔)

PS - I’m not looking for a partner for my physical comforts so no range is applicable into this companionship but it doesn’t mean I’m gonna date a teen(against my ethics) .
So if you think we are good and match enough to
Challenge each on the dimensions of seeing things I’m in love already.

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u/The_all_IN — 2 days ago
▲ 182 r/IrishDates+4 crossposts

Hello bros from Ireland (39)

Hello bros, from Ireland.

This photo is from yesterday :-)

Last account got compromised (Pinkyboi1986) so I'm saying hello once again.

Based in Dublin, love pop, house, electro and some other music.

Love to travel the world, spend time with family and friends, watch a good documentary and a good night out too.

If you would like to get in touch, do say hello to me :-)

u/Pinkyboi19861 — 3 days ago

18M4F Meath/Antrim Not expecting anything, giving this a go since I don't like using dating apps

Hey guys! I've never really used Reddit to find dates but I'm sick of using hinge so I'm trying this out with an open mind.

I'm 18M and I live in Meath, however I'm currently in college in Belfast so I spend most of my time up there. I'm into sports and all your typical boy stuff. I'm pretty laid back in general so I don't really have a type, I also don't mind somebody older because if we vibe we vibe yk. I also don't mind something casual as I'm pretty bogged down with school work atm. Either suits.

I drink socially, I don't smoke often but I won't say no if offered on a night out or a casual smoke sesh.

Just a warning in advance Im a horrible texter, I'd like to say I'm much more charismatic in person than online even though I have a pretty heavy online presence. I just don't like communicating through a screen.

Anyways yeah, that's bio and if I seem interesting enough hmu with a dm!

u/Morrigankami — 3 days ago

36M4F-Dublin

Hi there! I’m looking for someone to spend quality time with and see how things go!

I’ve been living here in Portmarnock for two years and now that I’ve gotten my English up to a good standard, I’d like to explore a little more of this country. I just want someone to do it with!

I’m Mexican, I’m into tech, I enjoy flying drones outdoors, I like going for walks.. forest, beaches who cares?! Into food and cooking, I can make you the best tacos you’ve had.

DMs open to any interested!

u/Puxinu — 3 days ago

Looking for friendships M4F

I’m male mid forties looking for female similar age.
I live around the Dublin, Clondalkin area and would like to meet for friendships, cinema, dinner dates and chat etc.
I have no idea what to say in these posts. My last one was taken down because I probably said too little. But I’m here, I’m pretty sane according to my friends.
But I feel youthful nonetheless.
I like a pint now and then, wine, baileys. I like to chat about all things. I don’t judge so don’t judge back. I’m easy going but have a professional career.
I like to travel but not to countries with poisonous animals and a shit ton of insects. I just wouldn’t get off the plane.
I like sci-fi movies and thrillers I fall asleep too. Forget the reality tv cos I will be going out at that point.
I hope this is enough for someone to start a conversation with, so we shall see.
Ask me anything and I will respond. Tell me anything and I will listen. Confide in me and I will take it to the grave.
That’s it really.
Kinda hoping the mods don’t delete this post.

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u/Loose_Inevitable3694 — 3 days ago

Any lesbians in mayo?

Single lesbian more on the butch/tomboy side looking for lesbian friends and see what happens?

I’m just gone 31, average build and about 4ft 11, I know, I’m tiny 🙃 I’m up for some craic, getting to know someone and just looking for someone who’s down to earth, thanks 😅

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u/The_Sassy_Lion — 4 days ago

F23 [F4M] Louth looking for someone similar age

Hi
I’m a 5’4 female South African that grew up in Ireland
I have black hair, brown eyes.
I like movies tv shows and reading books
Currently a medical student
Looking for someone similar age early to mid 20s
I like going on walks and drinking too much tea.

Dm to know more about me

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u/u-should-date-me — 4 days ago

31 M4F - Cork - Man for a good home - Every little helps

Hi everyone, I am a Turkish man living in Cork for the last six years. It seems that this information matters to a lot of people on a surprising level. 

I am 6'1 on a good day and have all of my teeth. 😎 I am not Brad Pitt, but I don’t think I look like a week-old mushroom in the fridge either, so I am more than happy to exchange photos up front.💅

I currently rock a short haircut and occasionally wear glasses when my body reminds me that I am getting older.  Financially stable, homeowner, and I drive, so an acceptable distance for the right person would not be an issue. 

I have an average body, getting leaner by day and prefer swimming to general gym workouts or hiking. Some tattoos and an impeccable music taste come in the package. Non-religious until the plane shakes a tad stronger than it has to, and I don't have strict preferences on my partner’s religious beliefs.

I heard I cook well and have a couple of Irish and non-Irish friends that call me when they crave the meatball dish I prepared for them when they visited. I promise I know more dishes, but despite being an ordinary dish, that one seemed to have made a name for itself.

During the day, I work a corporate job and daydream about getting out of the corporate world to repeat the next day, and evenings are filled with music, games with friends, practising instruments, and a lot of writing (mostly lyrics and poetry). 

Bonus information:

- Mom says I am a good kid.

- We don't run a harem here; therefore, I am strictly monogamous. 

- At some point, I will send you songs I have recorded or written. 

- I drink super rarely, but if there is a good occasion, I will never say no to a pint or a Long Island. 

- I am a big fan of feel-good series like Shoresy, Ted Lasso, Shrinking, etc. 

If this at any level resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. ^^

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u/Various_Mortgage9913 — 3 days ago

44 [M4F] Ireland / EU - Kind guy's looking for his lady

Hello!

I'm genuinely looking for someone as a partner (for life?), who's open minded, meaning able to adapt based on new info ^^ loyal, sufficiently adventurous but happy to be in cosy.

I live in Cork, Ireland and ideally would like to meet someone in Ireland, or in Europe, else if other countries then the candidate should be open to re-locate.

About me: I'm told I'm very kind, funny and creative person. I also like to think I'm very loyal, mature and have great understanding of others feelings, I have an altruistic personality also where I'd like to do my best for what I think is right. So, values matter to me.

I read a lot of books in my life, avid cinephile (not watching much anymore), travelled well but would love to more and more, I absolutely love hiking, mountains, lakes, currently planning Lycian Way and some Irish trails (Kerry Way et al).

I speak 5 languages, lived in a few countries 6+ years each. Have a mixed background and able to adapt well.

And food is very important to me, eating well, trying different spots/bites and cooking something new, I hope to have a partner who enjoys good food with me (so hopefully no vegan :/)

I'm into DIY, music, train rides, literature, philosophy, deep conversations, gardening, birds, plants, design among many many others.

Physically I'm -> 180cm, 80kg, hazel eyes, I try to be fit as I often exercise but no protein powder and mostly light/cardio; I like to dress nice, smell nice and try to take care of myself.

Also, I'm never married, and have no kids. I work for a US Tech company.

Thank you for reading and looking forward chatting you :)

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u/semi_conducts — 3 days ago

Cork based man, love to meet someone.

'Describe yourself in a short senten...'

Me:, say no more!

Hi, im Alexander, im 29, based in cork.

Im tall, 6'2, and slim with a wannabe athletic build. Im working out ballincollig way in a computer security company.

Been here about 10 years,moved over from the UK with the family, went college, the usual blow in stuff.

As I said, im tall, so I've been coined the nickname of "Tiny" on account of all my friends being shortasses.

I'd consider myself an introvert as well, immnot a huge fan of crowds and the constant 'hi how are you, nice to meet you' sorta thing. I usually ensconce myself in a corner with a few others.

Interestingly, I can also be incredibly extroverted, usually in short bursts that come on at random, and leave me feeling very confused on why I just talked the shoes off some person for 30 minutes.

Im kind and caring, seems to be in my nature, I always seen if someone is OK and chat to them if they aren't. Ive been told id make a brilliant councillor 🤣. This extends to animals, love dogs, always had them around, with the occasional herd of goat ls at the parents place.

Not so much a cat person, I tolerate them.

Hobbies?

In a word: YES

I love tinkering with stuff, taking shit apart to see how it works, mending stuff, creating things. Im big into 3D printing.

I play video games a lot with my friends, most evenings. Weekends im usually oit playing airsoft, its sorta like paintball, bunch of fellow nerds dress like idiots and shoot each other in the woods with toys guns, great fun.

I'll nerd about anything, WW2, bit of warhammer, Skyrim, starwars, fallout series, car, you name it.

Cycling and rock climbing are my other Hobbies, I really want to get back into them as I've been a bit slack this year.

I drive, nothing fancy currently, just a battered mazda 2. Ive an expensive taste in cars it seems, and have been humbled by insurance costs, so the trusty mazda with the dodgy drivers window will have to do!.

Travelling- love it. If I could work and travel i would. Only really been around Europe so far, but want to go further. Inter railing Europe has been the best fun I've had.

When im not gaming, out or running around peppering small children with plastic pellets, im chilling at home, occasional beer at the end of the week, YouTube, feet up.

I can cook, follow a recipe and so on. Nothing amazingly fancy, but not pop noodles Monday to Friday 😅.

What im looking for, I don't know!

Im not one to stick to a rigid ' i want this sort of person', I go off the vibe, how they act, respond to things. If we click then fantastic. Ive been burned before in relationships so I take a very slow approach which sometimes backfires.

Would feel comfortable meeting someone 26 to 32.

I'll be honest here: I like slim to medium build woman. Its just my thing to be honest, its what I find physically attractive.

If any of this piqued your interest, let me know.

u/Tinysniper2277 — 5 days ago

F26 looking for someone to vibe with

Hey everyone! Gotten sick of the apps so thought I'd give this a go instead.

From Louth, hopefully that doesn't put anyone off lol

My music tastes ranges pretty widely but my main genres would be metal and rap, but I'm always open to new suggestions across whatever you may enjoy!

Always attending concerts or going to the cinema, enjoy weekends away and trying new foods, going to arcades all that sorta thing.

Would love to chat to people and see where it goes from there!

I'm also 420 friendly if that's your thing although I don't partake that often myself anymore

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u/pimgleb2 — 5 days ago

35M Galway

Hello random people of Reddit.

Looking to chat to some people from the Galway area and hopefully find a connection and set up a date or two 😁

EDIT*(Bio)

Work in film and TV as a videographer, editor, and visual effects artist. Main hobbies are going to live music and concerts, movies, video games, playing and recording music, making short films, and a host of other things 😅 So if any of that sounds good to you 👌

u/Neroblade — 5 days ago

52 Male looking for Female in Laois

52, divorced, children all grown up (but never really gone :) ).

Im an introvert, love spending time with people 1 to 1 but not into the pub scene or speed dating or anything like that so I have not had a date in 6 years.

People would describe me as nerdy, kind (to a fault), talks to the dogs too much but an absolute dote

Live alone other than 2 dogs and a cat.

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u/MaximumStuff7286 — 4 days ago

F26. Dublin/Kildare

Heya! I’m gonna give it a try to this.
About me: Latina, 26, living here for a year and working in childcare education. Fluent in English and Spanish :) I love old man pubs and live music gigs, going for nature walks and of course, dancing.

Don’t want to rush into anything but definitely looking for something serious. Hit me up if you wanna go for some drinks :)

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u/Sea-Shirt8863 — 6 days ago

30F Midlands

Hello! 30F, brown hair, blue eyes, 5ft 5"

Big heart, dry sense of humour, and happiest when I’m doing something meaningful, wandering around somewhere or having a conversation that somehow goes from “what should we have for dinner?” to "sure what are we all doing here anyway?"

I’m ambitious and busy currently chasing a lifelong dream. I care a lot about people, and am currently working in a community support role, and find myself more attracted to people working in helping/caring roles. I’m also a big believer that you should be able to laugh at yourself.

Into: good food, gaming, the outdoors and finding an excuse for a weekend away.

Looking for someone kind, independent, happy to communicate openly and loves good banter. Extra points if you can make me laugh and will happily join me on unnecessary little adventures.

Edit: Okay, so more people are trying to get in touch with me than I was expecting so I'm going to have to apologise if I'm not getting back to everyone! I'm genuinely only interested in people who are in their late 20s to mid 30s. Thank you though :)

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u/OhMySteffiPie — 5 days ago

30F, Dublin

It is either this or I go back on hinge or I table dating for 2030.

I like to think I am compassionate, funny, decently intelligent and gorgeous on good days. I don’t have any particular hobbies I am very passionate about but I do anything and everything in moderation. I like history, walks (not hikes unless emotionally blackmailed), reading, cinema, those crafty events with the girls, stand up comedy. I go to gigs occasionally, house sessions quarterly (iykyk) and a MJ aficionado. I like to have fun and am not too fussy about things to do. I have wanted to get into boardgames for a while too. I love lively discussions, arguing about plot-lines from a movie/tv show, political discussions. I am a very curious person and usually have no problem deep diving into new topics, talking financial fraud, scams, cults and evil techlords.

That being said, I’m a major homebody. I love cooking and haven’t baked in ages but never heard any complaints when I did. I am employed and save and invest for my future self. I do all the boring things like budgeting, meal prepping, deep cleaning too. I am decidedly childfree and would be looking for someone with similar values and lifestyle goals. I am renting in D22 and have a treasure trove of Irish housesharing stories.

Hopefully looking for someone in my age range, independent, emotionally mature and appreciates his own space too. If you have a cat, it would be an excellent bait.

Edit: Just in case this is relevant, I’m here 7 years and Indian. Happy to exchange pictures after chats.

Edit 2: since I received a couple of DMs about Michael Jackson, I just want to clarify. I meant pot, I smoke pot sometimes. I do the odd gummy 2-3 times a year. I smoke ciggs occasionally when I am drinking.

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u/Ok-Quantity-1121 — 6 days ago

Is it possible to be honest?

I'm going to get my post removed fairly fast. Plus lots of hate for being transparent. I'm 37f pretty good looking. I wan't fun and excitement. I'd like to date but our chemistry has to match first. I'm not a gamer. I don't like puzzles. I'm not an introvert. I'm not an anti drinker. I like laughter, craic and excitement and anyone that's up for not taking life too seriously.

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u/KoonungaK — 6 days ago

38M from Waterford looking for someone in the South East

Tall, outgoing, and friendly guy, looking for his partner in crime.

My interests include reading, cooking, self-improvement, music (mainly into goth, metal, and alt music), gigs, cafes, pool, tattoos, dogs, staying healthy, acting, anime, going on adventures, and trying new things. I also organise a horror, sci-fi, and fantasy meetup in Waterford, which I do for a bit of fun.

I work as an admin, and I'm shortly starting a start your own business course with plans to start my own boarding kennel, as I love dogs and have two of my own.

I am looking for someone like me, kind, fun, and a bit weird in a good way, with similar values, I don't want kids or anyone into drink (heavily) or drugs.

Looking to get chatting and meet someone new, send me a dm. If you are interested.

u/Mountain_Spell_9882 — 5 days ago

M4F

Hi

I joined this after some recommendations from friends. I'm based in County Cork and im 43. I really like the outdoors so I'm always going on a hike, cycling, playing some kind of sport or just going for a walk. I'm also a big film fan so try to go to the cinema a few times a month. I don't have any kids and not interested in having kids in the future. I can' t believe reddit has become a better alternative to dating apps but this is the world we're in now😅 Send me a dm if you want or not. Thanks for reading🙂

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u/Irish_Goodbye2026 — 6 days ago