u/Mother_Leave_3584

Tip: How to Deal with Negative Emotions/Sadness

I am 5 days into my manifesting routine (robotic affirmations throughout the day - just one affirmation each day. Each day is a different affirmation. Half are SP, half are SC).

It's day 6 and I woke up so sad, longing, missing my SP. I was tempted to text them but did not. I affirmed through the sadness. But the sadness remained, and made me doubt this whole thing. Should I persist? What if it doesn't come? I feel so BAD.

I decided I needed to relax against my feelings of sadness. Accept them. Release them. Below is what helped me today, and I'm hoping I can carry it on my manifestation journey.

  1. "Okay, I'm experiencing some sadness/missing SP wave."
  2. Sit with feeling in your body for up to 30 seconds without attaching story/meaning. Observe it.
  3. Deep slow breath. Watch it dissipate.
  4. Then carry on with day/ affirmations.
  5. If feelings linger: "Yep, some sadness is still here. Anyways..."
  6. Don't give meaning to feelings. It's simply a physical response. This is not failure, it's just your nervous system adjusting. You're experiencing a temporary feeling of sadness, there is no deeper meaning/story. This is not your identity. This does not mean you're failing/not getting your desire. It's just old feelings moving through and your nervous system adjusting and regulating.

xoxo

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u/Mother_Leave_3584 — 4 days ago

Is self concept the only thing needed when manifesting?

Hi all! For those of you who have manifested their SP's back, using only self-concept affirmations, can you explain how you did it?

I am toggling between either just doing self concept, and not affirming for SP anymore, or doing mainly SC affirmations, and just a little SP. I'm not sure whether to just affirm for SP if they pop up in my mind, or RA for them throughout the day. I have some OCD so having a set plan/routine really helps me feel calm/relaxed/on track with success. Which is why I would like some insight on others who focused more on self concept/what exactly they did.

I was just RA for SP for the last 2 weeks and bc of my OCD I got obsessive and it made me feel not mentally well...I want to feel alive, happy, sparkly again! And I know SC will do that for me. But I also what my SP back, so looking for the right balance.

Thanks all!

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u/Mother_Leave_3584 — 10 days ago

Is self concept the only thing needed?

Hi all! For those of you who have manifested their SP's back, using only self-concept affirmations, can you explain how you did it?

I am toggling between either just doing self concept, and not affirming for SP anymore, or doing mainly SC affirmations, and just a little SP. I'm not sure whether to just affirm for SP if they pop up in my mind, or RA for them throughout the day. I have some OCD so having a set plan/routine really helps me feel calm/relaxed/on track with success. Which is why I would like some insight on others who focused more on self concept/what exactly they did.

I was just RA for SP for the last 2 weeks and bc of my OCD I got obsessive and it made me feel not mentally well...I want to feel alive, happy, sparkly again! And I know SC will do that for me. But I also what my SP back, so looking for the right balance.

Thanks all!

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u/Mother_Leave_3584 — 10 days ago