I love extra curvy women and my friends agree that they're hot but Ifeel the pressure to be with a woman who has an average size.
It's not a fetish , there's nothing wrong with me. I find different women beautiful across the spectrum but my personal preference is women who are more chunky. I'm just more inclined towards that sexually and I would love to be in a relationship with one. TB fair, I'm not attracted to every plus size woman: I'm attracted to those with a pretty face and a good shape/ fat distribution. When my friends and i sit at the local coffshop and talk about women, we all agree that X or Y is super hot. But my latest relationship with my ex ( we split up for an irrelevant reason) they almost made fun of me for it and one of them said he would never actually be in a relationship with one, he'd just be interested in her sexually.
I'm not sure why we as men do this. Why do we pressure each other into certain behavior and life choices that don't make much sense? I know what you're going to say, I am old enough and I should man up and choose what works for me but that isn't the question I'm asking. The question is: why do we do this? To ourselves and to each other? If we all love the curves why do we consider each other as a failure for not nailing someone who looks like a model? Why does it matter ? Why do we marry one thing and dream about another?