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Not sure if I should keep pursuing this relationship or not (19M, 20F)

I’m 19M and she’s 20F. We’ve been talking since April, so about 3–4 months, and in that time we’ve spent a lot of time together, visited each other, gone to a festival together, and talked every day.

She recently told me that she feels like she likes me more than I like her. She also said she’d appreciate more reassurance from me, like showing more interest over text and giving her compliments more often.

The problem is that I honestly don’t know what I want yet. I like her a lot, but I’m not sure I’m ready for a relationship. I just started working full time, I’m trying to get my own life in order, and she’s moving several hours away for university, so we’d be long distance. (6h, she already lives 2h away by car)

I’ve told her I’m willing to try the distance, but I also told her I don’t want to promise something I can’t keep. She said she understands and is willing to give me the time I need.

I’m wondering how people would handle a situation like this. Is it reasonable to take more time to figure out how I feel, or is that unfair to her? At what point do you know whether you should commit or let someone go?

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u/Motor_Champion6401 — 3 months ago
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Got new "dots" on my fingers that itch a lot 6 days after benzyl benzoate and ivermectin treatment

u/Motor_Champion6401 — 4 months ago
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Severe rash after permethrin treatment

My girlfriend developed this rash after using permethrin cream for suspected scabies. She left the cream on for about 24 hours before washing it off. The area became very itchy, then red and swollen, and now looks like this (see photo). She still has itching and is worried about whether this is: a reaction to permethrin, post-scabies syndrome, active scabies or something else entirely

u/Motor_Champion6401 — 5 months ago
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Permethrin Reaction or Still Active Scabies?

I’ve done 2 full permethrin treatments correctly, changed bedding/clothes, etc., but now about 3 weeks after the second treatment I’m still itching intensely, especially at night.

I’m getting new red bumps/spots on: hands/wrists, thighs, legs, stomach/back, feet

Some look like small blisters or irritation. I barely sleep because of the itching.

The confusing part is that I can’t clearly see many obvious burrows, and some people say it looks more like post-scabies or permethrin dermatitis/eczema than active scabies.

Did anyone here:
still get new bumps after successful treatment?
have worse itching after treatment?
mistake post-scabies for active scabies?

u/Motor_Champion6401 — 5 months ago