AITA For telling my twin sister that I would never except her boyfriend into our family.
Me and my twin sister where at the time 16 years old. My sister is a straight woman. I being the odd one out in my family am a gay(pan) trans man. (FTM) Our names rhymed before I came out as trans now they don’t.
Me and my sister didn’t really get along much as she was very outgoing and very social. I was her polar opposite as I preferred to sit in silence and my friends where few and far between. I didn’t really mind though, her friends where, well they where assholes. My sister Gabby liked to date online a lot despite our young age, I really didn’t agree with it but who was I to judge? She had meet this boy named Micheal on Snapchat and she seemed really interested in him as she had stopped talking to all the other boys on her apps. She never , and I mean never shut up about the guy when she wasn’t on call with him. It was honestly kind of annoying but It was nice to see how happy She was with this guy. A couple of weeks after summer had ended she had been bugging me into meeting the guy while she was on call with him. After a bit of convincing I agreed form what Gabby had been telling me he seemed to be an alright dude. So that night Gabby called and they started talking, I immediately got the creeps as he was making sexual comments like crazy and even asked if he could send a “special “ picture to my sister. Even with all the red flags I tried to not judge him. For all I knew he and my sister had sat down and talked about this sort of thing. I wasn’t there to judge until he asked me to rate how hot he was I laughed and told him that it was kinda fruity to ask a man to rate his hotness. My sister laughed too until Micheal started saying things like “ You aren’t one of those fags are you?” And “ you look like a woman to me perfectly bangable “
It was slur after slur and the comments reached there limit so I told him he could go fuck himself with a long stick. He laughed and told me he hoped I killed myself. I went to leave after that my sister only going on mute for a moment to make me promise not to tell our dad. After a shower and a pretty nasty panic attack. My sister came to me and asked me what I thought of him. I told her the truth , that be was a pervert and a asshole who only cared about getting laid and that I didn’t want him near my family, that I didn’t want him near her. She only got mad at me saying I wouldn’t understand because I was gay and that I should really take his advice.
Am I the asshole for telling my sister that I didn’t want her boyfriend near our family?