u/Muted_Operation9705

So me and my mom had a good week last week (so I thought) so she asked to keep my oldest Friday night into some of Saturday. She said Friday they were going to dinner at a place he likes and then Saturday she wasn’t sure yet but maybe her boyfriend’s pool for a bit. She never took him to eat where she promised which irks me but whatever. Saturday morning I call, no answer. I text that I called and ask if they want to meet for lunch (implied with my daughter, bc she’s literally not asked to see her, only my son) but no response. I try to call a total of 3 times, as well as my texts. I don’t hear back from her until it’s time to bring him home. She states she was in the pool. Well if you know my mom she’s always documenting everything on her phone, especially spending time with her grandson. My suspicions were confirmed when she confidently posted from the pool on her social media from that day…but ignored all my texts and calls. I said well I’m glad there was no emergency..she ignored it, dropped my son off without speaking to me or seeing her granddaughter. I attempted conversation later about a bug bite on my son, she was kinda not interested. Which is funny bc prior to me letting her see him, she was all about being my bestie. Anyways, I try to send her a joking message about I wonder if my ex in-laws would pay for my son’s private school. It was meant to be a joke bc they are about to go on this super expensive vacation with my son. Her response, completely unprovoked and out of the blue, started in on my relationship with my dad. And she’s back to being a total B again and making things bad until she wants to see one of the kids again for her biweekly (I pretend to be a good grandma) posts. Anyways rant over :)

Everything in me is dying to show my appt reminder that it’s on Sunday, but I refuse to give in to her constant questioning about my hair appt like I’m a liar. It does bother me so much though. Like ok keep calling me a liar and asking to see my kids. I offered lunch and you thumbs it up and then keep acting like you can’t see them. Even though my oldest just spend the night Friday. It’s so annoying an now she’s telling people at my daughters dance studio to take pics of her since she’s “not invited” that’s embarrassing.