u/MyJohnnyGuitar

Hey all,

I’m a 45-year-old straight guy from Australia looking to meet someone for a genuine connection that could grow into a long-term partner situation. I’m polyamorous, emotionally open, and value honesty, communication, affection, and people who can truly be themselves.

A bit about me:

Neurodivergent/autistic

Into photography, especially night photography and abandoned places

Love ghost hunting, urban exploring, and weird roadside attractions

PC gaming, documentaries, true crime, horror, sci-fi, and random YouTube rabbit holes

Music tastes lean heavily away from Top 40

Big fan of deep conversations, dark humour, and people passionate about niche interests

I’m currently volunteering while figuring out the next stage of life, and I’ve reached the point where I’d really like to find someone to share things with — conversations, adventures, affection, weird experiences, and lazy nights watching documentaries together.

Physically, I’m more “comfortable nerd carrying camera gear” than polished influencer. I’d rather wander through an abandoned building at midnight than spend the night in a crowded club.

What I’m looking for:

A female partner or meaningful connection with someone kind, emotionally intelligent, curious, affectionate, and maybe a little weird in the best possible way. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me if the connection feels real.

If you decide to message me, tell me:

Your favourite obscure music artist

A paranormal experience you’ve had (or want to have)

Your comfort movie/show

Or the weirdest place you’ve ever explored

Bonus points if you like spontaneous late-night conversations, urban legends, photography, or getting excited about random niche topics together.

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I’m a laid-back Aussie guy into photography, documentaries, movies, PC gaming, true crime, music that exists outside the Top 40 bubble, urban exploring, ghost hunting, and random late-night conversations that somehow turn into 3AM deep dives about life, weird history, or haunted locations.

I’m also autistic, which basically means if I’m passionate about something, I’ll happily info-dump with enthusiasm. I value honesty, direct communication, and people who can be themselves without playing games.

Some current obsessions:

creepy abandoned places

atmospheric horror games

documentaries that leave you questioning humanity

finding underrated music nobody else seems to know

photography walks with no real destination

Netflix binges and sharing recommendations

Not overly concerned where you’re from. Friendship is the main goal, but if something naturally develops, I’m open to seeing where it goes. Bonus points if you’re into weird hobbies, dark humor, paranormal stuff, or can recommend a movie that’ll completely mess with my head.

Tell me:

your favorite obscure band

the creepiest place you’ve visited

or the documentary everyone should watch at least once

Doesnt have to be personal, but what spooky, and or, scary storys of Adelaide?

Hey all,

I’m a 45-year-old guy from Australia looking to meet open-minded people for friendship, connection, flirting, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m poly-friendly, emotionally aware, autistic, and more interested in chemistry and conversation than forcing labels or timelines.

A little about me:

Photography nerd who loves urban exploring and finding beauty in forgotten places

Into ghost hunting, urban exploring, documentaries, true crime, movies, PC gaming, and music that sits well outside the Top 40 bubble

Big fan of late-night conversations, weird rabbit holes, dark humor, and sharing recommendations

Currently volunteering while figuring out my next career move

I tend to connect best with people who are curious, communicative, emotionally intelligent, and a little unconventional. Whether you’re solo poly, partnered, ENM, relationship anarchist, or just exploring, I’m open to getting to know you.

Current rotation:

Watching: The Boys and way too many documentaries

Listening to: Miles Davis, Jinjer, The Beatles, and obscure music rabbit holes

Gaming: Whatever lets me disappear into another world for a few hours on PC

Not looking for perfection. Just real people, good energy, and connections that feel easy instead of performative.

Happy to swap interest, photo dumps, creepy paranormal stories, movie recommendations, or just talk about life at 2am.

45M | Australia | Still hoping to find something real

Hey,

I’m a 45-year-old guy from Australia who’s spent a lot of time on his own, and I guess I’m at a point where I’d genuinely like that to change.

I’m not here with some perfect story — just someone who’s a bit introverted, thoughtful, and probably overthinks things sometimes. I tend to connect better through conversation than anything superficial, and I’d like to find someone who values that too.

I’m into photography (especially urban exploring and capturing places with a bit of history), true crime, documentaries, and movies. I also spend some time on Netflix, so if you’ve got recommendations — especially something gripping or thought-provoking — I’m always up for that.

Music-wise, I’m not really into top 40 stuff. I prefer finding hidden gems, older tracks, or artists that don’t get much attention. If you’ve got something a bit different, I’d genuinely like to hear it.

I’m not expecting instant sparks or anything unrealistic — just someone kind, genuine, and open to seeing where a conversation might lead over time. Even if it starts as just talking, that’s perfectly fine.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me.

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Hey there,

I’m a 45-year-old guy from Australia looking to connect with people for genuine friendship — location doesn’t matter, I’m open to chatting with anyone from anywhere.

A bit about me: I’m really into photography (especially urban exploring and capturing interesting places), true crime (always down for a deep dive into a case), and documentaries. I also enjoy movies, a wide range of music, and getting out to explore when I can — there’s something about abandoned or lesser-seen places that I find fascinating.

Lately I’ve been spending some time on Netflix, so if you’ve got a solid true crime series, documentary, or even just a great movie recommendation, I’m all ears. Same goes for music — I’m way more into discovering hidden gems than anything top 40, so if you’ve got something underrated or a bit different, I’d love to hear it.

I’m pretty easygoing, curious, and enjoy conversations that go beyond surface-level — whether that’s sharing interests, random thoughts, or just talking about life.

If you’re into similar things, or just feel like having a good chat (or swapping Netflix and music recommendations), send me a message. Always keen to meet new people and see where the conversation goes.