u/Mygrandmavspneumonia

Do not continue on if you are not extremely curious or have not surrendered to God/the universe/divine timing. This could completely shatter how you look at things, if you are not ready to give it up. It shook me up for an entire day when I learned it, and I was surrendered.

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I had the realization that romance is an illusion, unique to the 3D, unique to earth. It is an attempt to make us understand unconditional love, the concept of oneness, but was constricted by the fact that "merging" does not truly exist in the 3D. The next best substitute: sex, a hug, a kiss. We called it romance, and the people hijacking this 3D program then polluted it (casual hook ups, situationships, power dynamics, superficial attraction, etc) to make us frazzled and lower our vibration when the mismatched person we were with made us anxious, sad, or feel abandoned. When both merging and sex are intended to be with someone who is the same frequency as you. For those of us here, it is our twin flame (but could be a soulmate secondarily).

Now, I dont quite know where this ends. Like are we really only supposed to merge with just one person? Why wouldnt we merge with more people as they match us? Is sex/merging with a twin flame just supposed to be a "sample"? I need more reflection to understand, or maybe someone else here has already thought about this.

And furthermore, I think we desire things like sex, having kids via canal birth, and (for some of us) death, because those are event points of oneness. We go through life seeking oneness, when the greatest form of it is within ourselves and with God.

(Note: I am not an expert, nor claim to be one, just sharing what I have come to comprehend)

I realized that, for my twin to be me (a concurrent reincarnation of my soul) and for us to have the ability to be two people (separate body, brain, etc), we are also everyone else and everything else. It is just a matter of frequency. To change frequency, you gain experience (reincarnating) and make choices aligned with your soul's desires and destiny each incarnation. Your twin flame is the one version of you of perfect frequency match, everyone else is you of a different frequency. This is why you can only merge with your twin, we are really just frequencies (of consciousness).

Your body, your brain, your ego is an illusion to give you a different/new experience than the one you had/have/will have as everything else.

This is so fun. I feel learnt.