u/Mysterious_Thanks256

We went on a date, went well (both 23). We texted every day since, but it’s been always me reaching out. His replies are the opposite of dry and he always likes/reacts to my texts. My only issue is that I don’t receive a text unless I initiate the conversation. He even invited me to a double date with his friend. It’s not like I put him in this situation and he offered it out of pity or akwardness, he made the offer himself, and started the subject out of nowhere. I don’t see why he would do that if he didn’t like me. But also, we went today the whole day without texting. I know that if I did reach out first, I would get a very enthoustiastic and detailed reply in max 1-2h, but since I didn’t, nothing from him, at all. But I know he’s active online as he’s reposting stuff. I thought he’s also maybe uncomfortable and not confident texting first, but he should also not feel like that considering I’ve been always reaching out, which clearly shows him that I like him. Am I overthinking? Does he like me but just isn’t a tester? Does he like me enough to text back but doesn’t care enough to give initiative?

We went on a date, went well (both 23). We texted every day since, but it’s been always me reaching out. His replies are the opposite of dry and he always likes/reacts to my texts. My only issue is that I don’t receive a text unless I initiate the conversation. He even invited me to a double date with his friend. It’s not like I put him in this situation and he offered it out of pity or akwardness, he made the offer himself, and started the subject out of nowhere. I don’t see why he would do that if he didn’t like me. But also, we went today the whole day without texting. I know that if I did reach out first, I would get a very enthoustiastic and detailed reply in max 1-2h, but since I didn’t, nothing from him, at all. But I know he’s active online as he’s reposting stuff. I thought he’s also maybe uncomfortable and not confident texting first, but he should also not feel like that considering I’ve been always reaching out, which clearly shows him that I like him. Am I overthinking? Does he like me but just isn’t a tester? Does he like me enough to text back but doesn’t care enough to give initiative?

Hi, 22F. I downloaded Facebook dating as I was bored. I don’t really believe in finding love online, it was just to pass time on a Sunday night and forget about work the next day. A few hours in, I was looking through my likes and saw this guy who had a song in his bio, the same song that randomly popped into my head that day (haven’t thought of it for years). He also had the same name that I recently heard in a show and fell in love with, wrote it in my baby names list and all. So I took this as a sign from universe and decided to match with him. He ended up being super cute, sweet and a gentleman. We went on one date, went well. We’re texting a bit but I feel like it’s mostly me initiating conversation, even though his replies are very detailed and complete, not dry ones. I’m not sure if he actually likes me or if I’m imagining things. On the date, and by text after the date, he did mention a few things about us trying a new food or me possibly seeing his friends, which means he’s acknowledging the possibility of us seeing each other at least once more, but maybe he simply said those things out of niceness. Maybe im also overthinking the healthy amount people should text, I’m expecting a reply in less than 1h, which happens, but I also know he has a life (2 jobs, friends, family). We texted last night, it’s 2pm now. His text was the last one. Should I wait for him to text first? If he doesn’t text today, does that mean he’s not interested? Thx