I fell for it. I sure did!!? It's all good tho I'll make my mind forget you even fucking exist and you will go in with ur pathetic little life blaming every one else talking shit and thinking ur shit don't stink bitch I sleep next to you let me tell u it does. You'll end up old and alone with 1000 cats and cats turds everywhere maybe I will go but at least it will fucking peaceful!!!!
Ok alot of y'all are gonna want to curb stomp my head after this post but I promise ...pinky promise I'm just trying to figure this thing out for me and my family...
But what the fukc..is life that bad. I check this thread all the time and I hear Alot of oh my life sucks,.this guy left me...this person hates me ...oh I can't get out of bed...is all that like for real??? Or is it just venting? I tell my woman all the time because she gets so upset about what a mf thinks about her or might say. If they ain't ****inf you, feeding you,or paying the rent who gives a f what someone else says..some of u may know my wife just had a doc tell her she has BPD .and she hasn't even wrapped her head round it?? Has anyone ever been really shiitt e to a significant other??? Hitting degrading accusing kiklnda stuff?? Why do you do that??;would like to know to help if you don't mind. Thanks for letting me speak ..
So we are 46 years old known each other since the 7th grade. Always thought my wife wasn't just a little high strong and like argue but things just got worse and worse and worse finally we went to a doctor and he diagnosed with his BPD apparently there's nine things you have to check off and she checked all nine of them or eight of them one was iffy but she could have passed it so the doctor tells me I need to be the like the cool, collective one for her just to have some waste to feel calm and collective but I'm a mess I'm on done drugs my whole life and I've been always kind of a rough and rowdy kind of guy but I love my wife and I'm going to do my best to help I don't really know you're not the best at when she I guess is splitting when she turns into somebody different I don't handle that very mess very well not in the book back a little bit which I probably shouldn't do so anybody can give me any like tips and pointers I really appreciate it thanks not just about the splitting but about all kinds of PPD stuff and things I might need to know stuff to look out for how to how to dead an argument before it gets out of hand which they almost all the time do. She's she's a loving sweet kind affectionate person but when the other person shows up good gracious she thinks she's Mike Tyson on steroids so and there's no talking to her I just I need help anybody can help me I really appreciate it hit me up in the DM or post back
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So I'm new here my wife has been diagnosed with this bpd . I have read all this bad stuff about it can someone help me get my bearings and make a plan to help her. ? Thanks