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First order: the large slouchy. Disappointing.
I got my first Portland Leather bag and I'm disappointed by the quality.
First, though, the best thing: the shape. It has a very cute, casual slouch. This was going to be a weekend, casual mom, Target-run kind of bag for me. But I'm having trouble getting past the quality.
The leather feels plasticky, and it squeaks where the handle strap rubs together. Never experienced that in a bag. The zipper seems very cheap; it's wavy, and catches when I try to zip it closed unless pulled straight first.
The handle stitching is noticeably uneven, even in black.
I realize it's not a luxury bag, but this is still really hard to accept at this price point. Even cheaper no-name Amazon bags don't have these quality issues. I feel like this is the kind of thing I'd expect to find at TJMaxx at least half the cost.
Apraxia SLP discouraged us from continuing speech therapy because my child "didn't have enough focus for speech therapy to be effective"
My child (6) had been getting speech therapy for almost 3 years without progress, minimally verbal, and at the suggestion of his longstanding general SLP and his neurologist, we moved on to an apraxia specialist running her own practice. His old SLP was lovely but she felt like she didn't have the right skills.
The new SLP diagnosed him with apraxia and we started sessions. He brought his AAC to the sessions and occasionally used them, though he was not terribly proficient at this point. The therapy rooms were almost spartan in how bare bones they were, and she mostly tried to get him to imitate her mouth and sounds from a table, without much success. After maybe 2-3 weeks, she tells me at the end of the session that she thinks there's no use in continuing, as my son didn't have the focus for the therapy to be effective.
That appeared to be end of the line. I decided to take a break and try again when he had more readiness. After 7 months, we hesitantly started with a new apraxia-specialized SLP.
She went AAC-first, and my son made tremendous progress in just a matter of weeks- she installed the program properly (we just had a few buttons), and he immediately began navigating intuitively, reading buttons, initiating communication, responding, even sharing more complete thoughts. All in a few weeks. And the therapy rooms are cozy, with toys and furniture, and she plays with him, which he loves.
I realize now that my child was ready for speech therapy all along. I'm upset with myself for listening to her. We lost 7 months of services, when my child could have been making progress with the right support.
I thought my child wasn't ready and could be rejected for therapy again if we tried too soon. Now I hear how stupid that sounds.
I mostly blame myself, but I don't understand why the SLP never suggested we try a different approach, or even reccommended us to another colleague.
What's crazy is she claims to have helped other patients acquire AACs and use them. Before the evaluation, she said she had a significant CAS caseload, so I assumed she was an expert. I just have no idea why we were discouraged from pursuing speech therapy by her.
Llano River Paddling
I'm interested in doing maybe a 3ish hour paddle trip on the Llano, either in the Mason to Llano stretch, or the South Llano around Junction. I've explored other hill country rivers but I'm not familiar with this one. What stretches do you recommend?
In the 2000 presidential election, 78% of Muslim voters voted for George Bush. But by 2004, support plummeted.
nbcnews.comFar-right Texas politicians applauded a Supreme Court ruling that allows private businesses to refuse service to others. But now, Big Bend businesses are refusing service to wall contractors.
"Al fresco" meaning
This is not to flame or shame anyone, just wanted to share something a little humorous that Italian language enthusiasts might get a chuckle over.
"Al fresco" is a common adapted phrase in English used to mean eating outside. But that's not the meaning the term has in Italian.
In Italian, "al fresco" is sort of an old-timey phrase that often means being in jail, because jails in the past were often open to the outside air. (It can have the literal meaning too, in the right context.)
It's a slightly perplexing thing to say in Italian. It would sort of be like, while on vacation in Italy, an Italian asks if you would like to spend a beautiful afternoon "sleeping with the fishes". And when you ask, confused, what do they mean, they respond saying it's a term that means bathing in a freshwater body of water. And you see where they're going with it, but can't help but mention that the phrase has a pretty marked connotation in English. (This is the best example I can think of to convey how al fresco comes off).
A different way to phrase it in Italian is "all'aperto".
Anways, enjoy, guys.
Summertime Sadness: "The economy in this (so called greatest country) is bullshit."
Rural Texas conservatives love free markets but not when it comes to data centers
How a hard prune or a "Chelsea chop" affects your plants
The "Chelsea chop" refers to cutting plants back by 1/3 to 1/2 in mid-to-late spring to rejuvenate their growth and encourage density.
When deer browsed on just one of my turks caps in May, I inadvertently ran a side-by-side experiment of how the plants look after a hard prune vs no prune.
The deer ate a little over half the growth on one but left plenty behind. The turks cap put out a lot more axial growth tips, making it bushier, more compact, and making it flower more. The plants that did not get a spring chop focused on growing taller and enlarging their leaves.
I think the key thing with a hard prune is choosing the right moment in spring, not waiting too late when it gets hot and dry. The turks caps had plenty of spring weather left to recover before summer.
I'm waiting to cut back the rest of the turks caps in the fall to get the same effect.
I've seen a few discussions about hard pruning and when/why to do it, thought the sub might enjoy a visual.
August is upon us ☀️
Here we go now. Godspeed to my tomatoes.
Brexit in their own words: Travel is harder, country removed from some programs, economy has gone backwards, illegal immigration still an issue, red tape even worse. – Male, 45-54, Leave voter
yougov.comBrexit "Leave" voter angry that the collapse of EU immigration has led to rise in immigration from Africa and Asia instead
cbc.caA New Mexican cattle rancher wanted Trump to build a border wall. But after the Trump admin dug an unpermitted well on his ranch for wall construction, the rancher now says "it's going to pump us dry".
Crostata di ricotta e alchermes
Ho preparato una crostata per un compleanno. È perfetta per l'estate, si serva fredda. È un dolce molto nostalgico, più diffuso ai tempi dei nostri nonni. Preparo l'alchermes a casa, purtroppo non si trova nei supermercadi.
Ricotta and alchermes crostata:
I made a pie for a birthday. It is perfect for summer, served cold. It is a very nostalgic dessert, more popular in our grandparents' time than today. I make the alchermes at home since it's not sold in the stores where I am.
Are you staking your zucchini? Letting it trail on the ground?
I have some zucchini that are starting to get pretty long stalks and are still producing. Do you let your trail on the ground, or prop them up?
Joe Carrasco voted for Trump. Now the Trump admin is threatening to seize his family ranch to build a border wall on it in Big Bend area.
texastribune.orgWoman in a Garden, Austin, 1958
[Woman in a Garden], photograph, April 15, 1958; (https://texashistory.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metapth531328/m1/2/?q=%20date:1950-1985: accessed June 7, 2026), University of North Texas Libraries, The Portal to Texas History, https://texashistory.unt.edu; crediting Austin History Center, Austin Public Library.
Reviewing my 2026 tomatoes 🍅
Reviewing this year's tomatoes:
Celebrity: C+ flavor, A- productivity. They are fine, not amazing, still superior to grocery store. Set well and have really slowed down new growth in June.
Better Boy: A- flavor, C+ productivity. Good, pleasant taste with a nice tang. Great slicer size. Somewhat prone to cracking. Each plant has set just a few fruits.
Arkansas Traveler: A flavor, A- productivity. Slow-starting heirloom that is now leading the rest in size. Cranks out tomatoes pretty reliably even with the rain and humidity this year. The first fruit after the torrential rains was meh, but everything that came after that has been great. It has a slightly sweet, creamy texture, well-balanced. Still setting tomatoes in June. I will definitely bring it back next year.
Cherokee Purple: A+ flavor, D productivity. Incredible tomato. Smokey, salty and lush texture. Gorgeous tomato. It liked the weather in February, though. Hasn't set a fruit since March.
Juliet: B+ flavor, A productivity. I grew these last year and they are my best all-arounder. Great for salads and sauce. A little more acidic and tangy than my others.
Super Sweet 100: A- flavor, A productivity. Mine were slow to establish this year. Flavor is a bit all over the place, maybe because of the intense rains all spring.
Red Grape: A flavor, A productivity. I like the slightly tart, zippy taste. They are quickly outrunning my SS100 and are slightly more productive. Surprised to say I usually like these better than SS100.
Principe Borghese: A+ flavor*, A productivity. Eaten fresh, the flavor is pleasant but not noteworthy. But dried... they are transcendent. Like tomato candy. Tried drying some of my other cherry varieties for comparison, but they couldn't touch PB. Dried them at 135F for 6-8 hours in my air fryer using the dehydrate mode. Still setting lots of fruit. Will definitely grow again.
La Roma Red: B+ flavor, A+ productivity. Very pleased with this plant for sauce tomatoes. Just one plant has made enough for multiple batches of sauce on its own. It is basically done for the season, though, being a determinant. Would grow again.
Roma vf: B flavor, C+ productivity. I have no idea why my basic roma tomatoes this year are struggling to grow and set. Each one hasn't gotten above a foot. Both nursery transplants. Last year this was a vigorous variety for me. Maybe I got unlucky this year.
Mortgage Lifter: Fuck this tomato. I grew it from seed, both are 4 feet tall, vigorous, puts out many blossoms yet neither one has set a single fruit. Never again.
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Next year, I want to try Indian stripe, stupice, sun gold, black cherry, katinka, and maybe a dwarf variety.
Would love to hear thoughts on these or your other tomato varieties this year!