u/Mysteriousblack0501

Rendum ore mari irku solidathingaaa

Bought this bracelet with my own money and its gonna be always special 💖

Got curious — what was the first thing you bought for yourself after getting your own paycheck?!! Edit:ignore that financially independent stuff

Suggest if there’s anything I could improve!!!

Girls,

I feel like my dressing style is kinda outdated and I genuinely don't know how to make it look more modern/age-appropriate 😭

For example, I actually like outfits like the one in the picture, but now I'm wondering if it gives outdated / aunty vibes 💀

As 23yo I want to improve my overall dressing sense without completely changing my personal style.

What should I focus on — clothes, colours, fitting, accessories, shoes, hairstyles, etc.?

And where do you guys usually get inspiration for outfits?

Am I weird for this? 😭

Last night, while brushing my teeth, completely out of nowhere, I suddenly remembered the first time I saw my ex in real life.

We met online and started dating during COVID, so obviously we couldn't meet in person for a long time. Eventually, somehow, we managed to meet at my aunt's shop. It was literally just around 10 minutes, but I still remember everything so clearly.

We barely spoke because we were both so shy. We just kept looking at each other, blushing and getting that stupid butterflies-and-fluttering feeling. 😂😭 He even bought a ₹10 water bottle, and I still have that exact ₹10 note with me. I've kept it safely it's been 6 years .

And last night, that entire 10-minute memory suddenly came rushing back. The way I felt seeing him for the first time, the nervousness, the eye contact, everything. And I just started crying. I don't even know why.

We parted ways almost two years ago. I don't regret loving him, not even now. Things change, people change, situations change, and sometimes relationships just don't work out.

I don't necessarily miss the relationship or want him back. I think I just suddenly missed that version of me who was so ridiculously happy and nervous over something as simple as seeing the person she loved for the first time.

Idk, I just wanted to rant somewhere. 😭

Tbh, I was talking to my Reddit friend about marriage and somehow we got into the topic of relationship experience.

He’s in his twenties and hasn’t had any love/relationship experience yet. He said that if he gets an arranged marriage, he would want a girl who is also like him — basically someone with no past.(Sexually)

I told him honestly that he shouldn’t necessarily expect that, especially these days. People can have completely different experiences before marriage. But he was like, “I would prefer someone like me.”

We actually ended up debating about this for a while 😂 because I see it completely differently.

Personally, I don’t really care whether my future partner has a past or not. If he has dated someone before, that’s his past. I wouldn’t judge him for it, and I also don’t care whether he’s a virgin or not. What matters to me is how he treats me, whether he’s loyal, compatible with me, and ready for a healthy relationship/marriage.may be I am wrong I want a valid reason for both just say your pov...

But I’m curious — what do you guys think?

Would you prefer your future partner to have no past / the same level of experience as you, or does their past not matter to you as long as they’re a good partner now?(Sexual past)

Note: guys enoda question enna puriyama pesitu irkinga may be I didn't explain well....If your partner has a sexual past does that affect you ??? If yes why??? I was just curious as I had a Convo with my frd I am not supporting any sides here just asking how you people think about this...so enna adikathinga samantham illama 🫩🤧

I want to know different perspectives and understand which matters

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Guys, I stupidly deleted my old Reddit account in a moment of frustration and now I’m seriously regretting it.

I met a guy on Reddit and, over time, he somehow became a part of my everyday life. We weren’t exactly lovers, but we were definitely more than just friends. I had some commitment and trust issues, so I never really gave him any hope about where this could go. I also found it difficult to trust someone I only knew through Reddit, while he was hesitant to share his other socials because of the situation.

I did explain to him that I just needed time, and he seemed to understand. But eventually he deleted his account and disappeared, and I had no other way to contact him.btw he wanted to be in a relationship with me only through Reddit that's why I couldn't trust him solely.

I got frustrated and impulsively deleted mine too. Now I’m regretting it so badly. I didn’t realise how emotionally attached I had become until he was suddenly gone. I never really showed him how much he had become a part of my day, and maybe he was confused by my behaviour too.

I know I probably can’t do anything about it now, but I just feel really empty and frustrated with myself. I don’t even know how to explain this feeling properly. I guess I just needed to rant somewhere. 🤧

Has anyone else here ever gone through something similar? Like meeting someone on Reddit, getting emotionally attached without really defining what you were, and then suddenly losing contact with them? I’d really like to know if I’m not the only one who’s experienced this

I’m having a bit of a hard time lately and just want some good movies to get lost in for a while and forget reality 😭

Looking for crime / mystery / thriller movies with good twists and suspense. Preferably something available on Netflix.

Please suggest your favourites — no spoilers please! 🥲🤧🚶