My crush had a crush on me but i crushed his crush on me
you might get a stroke reading this but i am living this rn so leave me alone
So there is a guy in my class who had a crush on me and i got to know about it in 2025 sep but on the same day i got to know that he doesn’t have a crush on me anymore and he likes someone else now.in-front of the all the guys he said he liked me
on the same day i got a message from him on snap that he wanted accounts notes but my book was incomplete so i told him i don’t have notes for it and than removed him from my snap ( i accepted his snap request 2-3 days before this happened and found it weird that he was finding a excuse to talk to me when he liked someone else, he is the quite kid so i thought he is a decent guy and had accepted his follow request only for that reason )
1 month before that he sent me a follow request on insta and after removing him from snap his request stayed on my acc for another month.
now in jan 2026 i got a confirmed crush on him
and on my birthday i was distributing chocolate and he didn’t take it or wish me
now before there were 0 guys on my insta and i made a new guy friend in the same school diff stream and me and guy and girl friends made some reels and my guy friend posted them on his story and he sent me a follow request from his main id again which i accepted (this was in feb) ( before request was from his pvt ,which according to timeline i am suspecting he made the acc for me)
on the 1st day i posted a story and me then him then me again this happened on the 1st 2 day but he never liked any of my stories like neverrr
he liked all of the posts i posted which was after he
was on my insta.
i liked his 1 post too bcz i was after i was on his insta
now in may he posted a story smoking hookah and i blocked him and than unblocked him 2 days later
now in end may his friend asked my male friend that if i an single or not if my crush he tries will there be a chance for him etc my stupid male friend without asking me told his friend we won’t work out ,we are polar opposite and like he is into fighting etc and she won’t like that at all ( no one knows i have a crush on hime except 1 girl)
but 1 day after that i got to know from a girl that got to know from a diff that he has allegedly was making jokes about female reproductive on the class wall and has said and there is no girl to like in commerce or science too and we should date younger girls cz they are not “ used “ which is a fucking disgusting thing to say but it is not confirmed that he said that since that girl lies a lot about things for entertainment and in and in 11th also a girl told another girl and through her i got to know that he has allegedly said he likes a girl because of her figure.
And that another guy has a crush on me and he is asking my male friend to set us up repeatedly (he got blocked on the sane day i found out about this ,the other guy ) he is the mutual friend of our all mutuals and when my crush got to know about it he said set them up together.
now after i got to know this i asked my male friend that get me info on when he started liking me without getting my name in between but he got to that i was the ine asking (the ans was june) and told my friend that i don’t like her anymore ( 1 -2 days after asking my friend if i was single )
but on the same day i get a snap from our mutual friend his and m.f(mutual friend) snap in proper gym pose which never happened before and our m.f sent it to my close hgs too
and i got his snap for 2 -3 days too like not proper pose but his friend was sending it.
and i got a instant of him from a mutual too that also never happened before.
so i am confused as to he likes me or not !!!!!!
should i just move on but i have been trying to since forever
and we are genuinely polar opposites i talk a lot,he is quite,i am chalant and over excited most of the time ,he is calm and collected.
he comes of as a sigma nonchalant and a gymrat all of the above which i don’t like at all and i think he has an ex i want a guy without any past bcz i don’t have a past too might be orthodox but still 🙏🏻😭
like we might actually not work out
i should probably quit.