Solo date ft. Me and comfort movie
I LOVE going on solo dates now, but my first one? Absolutely terrifying. 😭
I remember sitting there thinking of a million different scenarios. What if people think I’m lonely? What if everyone is staring at me? What am I even supposed to do sitting alone? I was genuinely so awkward and nervous.
So naturally, I decided the best way to deal with my anxiety was to pick a ridiculously fancy place, dress up, get ready like I was going on an actual date… and just go.
The first few minutes were definitely awkward. I was hyper-aware of myself, looking around and wondering if I looked weird sitting there alone. But then something just clicked.
I started enjoying my own company. I ordered some amazing food, took my sweet time, actually enjoyed the atmosphere, and realized… wait, this is actually FUN??
Nobody cared that I was alone. Nobody was judging me. And even if someone did notice, who cares?
That one awkward little dinner completely changed my perspective. Since then, I’ve gone on multiple solo dates and honestly, they’re some of my favourite dates.
10/10 would recommend taking yourself out. Dress up. Go somewhere nice. Order the good food. Sit there and romanticize your own life a little.
Turns out you don’t always need someone else to have a good time. Sometimes the date is just you❤️