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I bought a friday only ticket via v*agogo but I received a passe partout ticket and it's already reflected on my dutch gp app. Should I be concerned? Or worried about someone potentially having the same ticket/seat as me and scanning the qr code for three days?
For context: i know i am being overworked. I work almost 60+ hours per week. I want to rematch and leave the house secretly
Hi, I'm posting this to vent + get your perspective + teach me how to shift my mindset. If u saw my prev post, I am being overworked by my host family. They are nice and accomodating, but babysitting 4 kids for more than 60 hours per week is super exhausting. My host parents keep saying that it will get better once they start school again, but I am finding myself getting more drained each day.
However, the feelings of guilt lingers. I feel like I am "owing" them something since they spent a lot for the agency + plane ticket + hotel for my visa etc. Also, we went to a vacation recently to Switzerland where they paid everything and made sure I was enjoying myself (but the red flag was I was basically left with no choice but to go with them even though Switzerland is a dream country of mine)
How do I remove these feelings of guilt? 🥲 I do not find my current arrangement sustainable for a year.
*editing some details for safety and anonymity*
Hi, I'm an EU au pair here in eu. My hosts are making me work more than 6 hours per day. Despite asking them to reduce my working hours, they said it's not possible because they're very busy people.
Seeing that they're not willing to give me humane working hours, despite being accommodating to me so far, would it better for me to leave suddenly or give them a few days? I am just afraid that the second option would make them intimidate me into not leaving.
But I also think that leaving suddenly is also a bit ungrateful of me because they keep reminding me of the money they spent just to bring me here.
What do u think?
Hiii, I applied for LOA for this Sem and then only started my application yesterday - as in I just sent the form to my adviser to have it signed and also forwarded it to colsec on the same day. And today i received the news that I'm already approved + it already reflected on my CRS. I thought may bayad pa yan? 😭 Especially since late nako nag apply huhuhu anong nangyare bat ambilis medyo na shock ako hahaha