I wish I (m21) could help my Girlfriend (f23)
Context for our situation, im in the UK, shes in America. And we havent met irl yet due to neither of us being able to fund the journey. Im fresh out of university looking for a job, and planning to visit when i have the money, and her mom wants to meet me first, rather than letting her come to the UK on her own, which i agree with.
She lives with her mom, and brother. I live with my parents.
I'm not sure how to start this, but the last 2 days theres been a disagreement between her and her mom.
Her mom is giving my girlfriends plushes? I think to my girlfriends neice, and when my girlfriend spoke up that she didnt want to give them away, her mom told her she didnt have a say in the matter. It made her want to go to bed earlier than planned cause she felt depressed.
And then today, she went to heat food up in the microwave and asked her mom if she was doing it correctly as she wasnt sure. Her younger brother got after her for asking (idk why or what he said), and then her mom called her spoiled In spanish. From what im told.
After that she decided she isnt going to eat and went back to her room and cant go back down as its after 10pm and her mom would go after her if she did.
Now shes hungry as she only ate cereal in the morning, and some watermelom throughout the day.
It sucks i cant do anything to get her food as im worried about her wellbeing.
The best i can do is comfort her through the phone, and she appreicates it, i just want to do more and help her.
Not looking for advice, just wanted to vent how i hate that she has to go hungry cause of an arguement which i dont even think she did anything wrong in.