

Update: I found the other one
Alright, so this is the first one he made me. I started looking at my Facebook to see what the timeline was and here’s the lore:
I was 18 at the time and had graduated high school in May. We met and started dating in August of 2011, I believe he was 3 years older than me? I was living in central California at the time and he lived in Portland. I visited him once around October. I broke up with him around January or February in 2012. Yes, the excuse was that he was too nice. But in reality, I think it was just a lot. He wanted to be more serious, wanted me to move to Portland and at the time I couldn’t even decide if I was going to the universities I got accepted to.
A lot of you told me to look him up. I thought we hadn’t spoken since 2012 but we actually did connect briefly in 2024.
Upon much thought, I won’t be reaching out. I asked one of our long time mutuals how he’s been. He moved back to his home state (he is no longer in Portland). I live in Arizona now. We’ve both been married and now divorced. He sounds like he’s doing good though, and that’s great.
It was really cool reminiscing though! I found a lot of pictures of us I didn’t know I still had. Funny enough, I’m going back to Portland for the first time since 2011 in two weeks.